those of you with families how is it. is it better than being 20 year old partier. wut r the pros and cons. im personlly looking forward to it.
Its a PITA, then you see their smile and hear their laughter(kids) and the frustration goes away...... Then it comes back again. All in all if you enjoy doing things on your own time and enjoy sleeping and relaxing, and you lack patience.... DONT HAVE KIDS.
I hate kids but I love my son. Enjoy your freedom while you can. Kids will suck you dry in every possible way!! Emotionally, physically, mentally, financially... But they will teach you an unrivaled love. I can't imagine loving anything or anyone more than I love my boy. He is my pride and joy, my sunshine, the love of my life.
[quote name='"SassyMelassy"']I hate kids but I love my son. Enjoy your freedom while you can. Kids will suck you dry in every possible way!! Emotionally, physically, mentally, financially... But they will teach you an unrivaled love. I can't imagine loving anything or anyone more than I love my boy. He is my pride and joy, my sunshine, the love of my life. [/quote] My momma says that in a way I tell her I love her and she always says I love you more, I guess you can't understand until you have had a kid?
[quote name='"Mendi769"'] My momma says that in a way I tell her I love her and she always says I love you more, I guess you can't understand until you have had a kid?[/quote] I don't think you can. The way my heart swells for my little guy....he makes me so proud.
[quote name='"PrincessTHC"'] Why are kids so stressful?[/quote] I believe it depends on your situation, such as having a child when your not prepared or ready for one, no matter what you'll love him/her greatly but it still wont change things being rough, just gotta have patience and lots of love.
[quote name='"blazethatgreen"']Having children is selfish, you can easily adopt one without parents.[/quote] Wish the ol lady had that kind of reasoning before deciding to have one, as men we have no say in that field. SUCKS....too late now :-(
[quote name='"badboy287"'] Wish the ol lady had that kind of reasoning before deciding to have one, as men we have no say in that field. SUCKS....too late now :-([/quote] No sex = no pregnant wife or eventual children.
[quote name='"blazethatgreen"'] but...No sex = no sex [/quote] Well, it is untrue to claim, as a male, that you have no control.
[quote name='"SassyMelassy"'] Well, it is untrue to claim, as a male, that you have no control.[/quote] When i say no choice i mean when you hear the words im pregnant, its downhill from there.
[quote name='"badboy287"'] When i say no choice i mean when you hear the words im pregnant, its downhill from there.[/quote] Lol well, if it is any consolation, being pregnant fucking blows.
We know we have the control. We just dont want to. One time my friends played a really sick joke and convinced me I got a girl pregnant on my 21st (other drug stuff) I couldnt get a hard on for a month