I have a friend that has been coming around for months now—daily. Sometimes multiple times a day depending on work schedules, and always wants to smoke. My weed. He’s only ever matched weed one time & he makes 10x the money that I do. He’s even gotten to the point where he will ask me for some to take with him and NOW, he asks for some to smoke up his friends just because he knows I always have it. But it’s expensive and I’m not confrontational and I feel bad to think about being mean, but I feel so taken advantage of. He’s smoked my stash for months for free & I can not fathom doing that to someone and not feeling completely rude.
Stop giving him weed and stop smoking with him. You'll quickly learn he isn't your friend. Sent from my LM-X420 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Sorry meant to reply to the OP. I was That Guy kinda, I could not compete with buds that made 10x more than me with things about $, other things yes. Now they still have the $ but need it to buy their weed, I don't. If a true friend & he can't afford to hang, help him out. Dear Abby said nobody can walk all over you unless you lay down. Be honest WTF am I the one buying weed when U make more $? simple.
I don't have any friends who are mooches. I don't hang out with people who are greedy and self-serving.
tell him you going to stop for whatever reason, we all have our leaches, think how you met and reverse the issue, I have a leech and made the mistake of toking up my weed with his buddies, we ain't buddies anymore, its a commonsense security issue good luck
I would tell him that I am out but if he wants to pay, I can pick up for him. If he says ok, I would charge him at least 25% over cost. He don't like it, he can find another plug.
You charge your friends a finders fee? That's as bad a friend quality as being a mooch! Maybe my definition of "friends" is different than yours though.
Not at all. I give my friends free flower, concentrates, edibles, etc. Basically if you are my actual friend, what is mine is yours when it comes to weed. Evidently we do have different definitions of "friends" because my friends wouldn't be coming around mooching constantly. If you are a mooch, and not a real friend, then you're damn right I charge extra. You can be a victim if you want, I got better shit to do.
I only use cannabis around home,,, my wife doesn’t use it, and she doesn’t allow me to use it… Surprising how little I go through,,, given I can only use cannabis when she’s away for a day or two… She hates it, and is frightened of it, but she won’t give her reason(s) why…
No one can take advantage of you unless you let them. Stop letting him hang around, all he wants is free weed.
Stop inviting him over, or hide your weed. Smoke a fat bowl right before he comes over. I had a friend like that too. I'd smoke before he shows up and after he left.
Sounds you need to cut em off. Most my friends don't smoke at all. We have other hobbies in common and, the few that do have their own. Don't make friends based on what they drink or smoke or use. Those aren't real friends. They're just "smoke buddies". The most toxic type of friendship. It never lasts. If you wanna smoke then do it. But don't make it your personality or base your friendship on it. Best life advice you'll ever receive. You're welcome!
Some folk don't know how to behave. Next time he comes over, calmly and cooly say, " I need some money for the weed, with a smile. If he's cool about it , stock up on weed. If he ain't cool, tell him you can't afford his weed,with a smile. Be Calm and cool.