I want to get better at eating pussy. I've only eaten one girl out , and she enjoyed it, but it didn't blow her mind. I want to blow minds. maybe I just need to hook up with more girls , they say practice makes perfect Anybody have tips or techniques to share? Any books on the art of cunninlinguis(sp?) ?
Get your tongue pierced, automatically makes you better than most guys. After that, dont be afraid to dig in, this comes naturally if you really like eating pussy. Focus on the clitoris, its where most of the stimulation comes from, but dont neglect the rest of the vagina.
Every vagina is different. I had a guy go down on me once and he was super rough and I was like dude sucks! Then I told him that I like it really gentle and he's like oh, sorry. My ex liked it tough. Don't think that what will work on one girl will work on all. Im sure there's the basics of it but you've got to experiment and figure out how to read a woman's body. Try different things and when you see how she reacts to a certain technique, you've got your answer. I think one of the worst things to do is to go down on a woman and make your mouth go all wily nilly crossing your fingers and hoping for the best.
Focus on the clit. Use the very tip of your tongue. Good for several reasons. 1) you can really focus on her and tease the clit with the tip of your tongue. 2) By positioning yourself correctly, you're using the tip of your tongue and able to breath through your nose which means you aren't going to 1) suffocate and 2) stop at the wrong time. Never underestimate circular movements with the tip of your tongue. Ever. Don't go all wild and crazy like Animal beating the drums. Take your time, draw it out. Run your tongue from her clit downwards and back again, dip your tongue inside her. You can penetrate with one finger while still using your tongue. Sure, some women like it hard and wild, but if you go too far, all she's going to be doing is thinking about how crazy you're being. Another tip? Don't try to kiss her anytime soon afterwards. Huge turn off. D-r-a-w it out. If she's telling you she's about to cum, just pull back a little, let her cool down and start all over. And when she finally climaxes, keep your tongue on her clit but don't add a lot of pressure. A flick here or there is good but you don't wanna push down too hard. If you play your cards right, you'll make her orgasm more than once. And finally, talk to her. I mean, seriously, it's not that big a deal and if you ask her what she likes, she'll probably tell you. Communication is key. Along with circles.
The question is, will you kiss her back after she blows you and swishes your nut in her pretty mouth?
[quote name="Zionne" post="19456772" timestamp="1391408675"]D-r-a-w it out. If she's telling you she's about to cum, just pull back a little, let her cool down and start all over. [/quote]This Is one thing I'm confused about. I've heard two completely different views. Yours, and another one that says when she is about to climax , that's when you really want to not slow up or pull back or else you're at square one and may not get her to the point of orgasm again."Another tip? Don't try to kiss her anytime soon afterwards. Huge turn off. "I've done this before. She wasn't turned off by it. It turned me on too, but she was also Bi so maybe that's why she liked the taste of pussy.
[quote name="Ẅest Čoast" post="19458598" timestamp="1391449277"]The question is, will you kiss her back after she blows you and swishes your nut in her pretty mouth? [/quote]I have before *shrug* doesn't turn me off because it's my own nut idc , but most girls have been thrown off by it so I don't do it anymore. They're just like "you like the taste of your cum or something?" When in reality I was just trying to show appreciation for the head I just received.
those girls are lame lol. i won't give a dude head again if he won't kiss me after, thats some bulllshitt. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
Yea, that's not a one-size fits all scenario. Holding back can be a tease but it can also piss her off. Gotta read the body language.
Sounds like you are getting bad advice. Exactly what you said - you don't want to end up back at square one. It's different if the two of you just aren't ready for orgasms though which can sometimes put an end to things (sometimes).
Gotta read the face. When you're all up in the pussy ears deep, peek at her face, if she's giving you the stink eye, time to make her squirt.
Whoever said don't kiss her afterwards? Not always true. Not only do I like kissing immediately after, I also like sucking on his fingers if he used them in the process. Some ladies like their own brand. Otherwise, a couple others had it right -- try different things, see what really makes her blurt, "Yes, right there!"
Yep. No problem with it what so ever. Turns the wife on too so that is an added bonus. Will even go down on her her after I nutted inside her. Very few things are as intimate.