For the past year I've been working on achieving my dream. If by some means this doesn't work out, I am in college working on my plan B. I'm 21 years old and I want to focus on working hard and my future, but time and time again I see myself getting distracted by my emotions towards females. I have a fear that if I don't act now, all of the good girls will be gone. I say this because the large majority of the women I meet I wouldn't date unless I was being held at gunpoint. How can I redirect my focus and simply stop caring or worrying? Is anybody in a similar situation? Does anybody have any stories similar to mine? Is anybody older and more experienced who can give me a reason to STFU and focus on myself?