I wouldn't add anything at all for at least another 2 weeks. But i believe cal-mag is just calcium and magnesium, why would you want that this early in a small seedling's life? Let it do it's thing. Sit back and watch
the reason is I usually have some sort of mag def. late in veg thought maybe its because i give it 0 ppm water for the first 3 weeks of its life
calcium should only be added every few years. if the soil is too clumpy you need more calcium mixed in.
Not enough info to answer the question. In my grow I don't use calmag at all. If you already know when you start seeing deficiencies, you already answered your own question.