I'm curious to know how long.. I met this girl mid august at football camp, she is a athletic training major. got her number about 6 days later. I've been goin at it for about little more then a month and I'm not there yet. I think I'm making progress tho, slowly but surely is the motto. We're in college but she doesn't drink or smoke which I don't mind but it makes it tougher to chill cuz she's doing homework instead lmao. But I consider her wifey material and I want her. Lemme kno blades.. Cheers
seems like she has her shit together. u gonna have to spend cash on this broad...take her to a nice dinner
u got the right idea, slow and steady but u don't wanna get in the friend zone! test the water now and then i.e make remarks, sit close,chill like bff's. then if it happens , it happens!
Act quick. Or else friend zone forever! If your idea of "lets hang out" is taking her to your friend's house and playing BP. She'll be bored quickly. If she's into learning, take her to a cool museum. Or a comedy club - low costs, she'll automatically be laughin/in a good mood & YOU won't have to be the cause of it. Never a movie thou, too quiet & dark for you to really get to know her. Dinner is better, but still...the stigma of "oh fuck this is a date" can be a little overwhelming. Let it be known you're interested in her asap
I was going to ask her on a date today but she has a volleyball game. I can't do Saturdays cuz I have football games. Plus it's tough to find time to chill cuz classes started but I usually see her at practice so when we mostly talk to each other. But i think that helps to in a way because since don't constantly see each other our we aren't getting bored of each other. I called her when I was at the hotel for the first time so I hope that was positive in my progress. It was like we were in person, good humorous conversations but damn I was scared to call at first lol. Edit: we hung out before during football camp. We'd just sit outside and chill. I wanted to take we to this place where they got go carts, arcade, mini gold and what not but like I said she had a match. I don't wanna do the original dinner date or movie either. I wanna have fun and I think she'd have a good time.
Well, I don't know all of the details of your relationship, but it took me and my current partner about three months to officially become exclusive - we were the whole time anyway, but I think it all depends on what's right for you and this woman. As for a fun date, I would definitely take the museum route. They've intentionally housed some of the most interesting discoveries in the world. We just had a museum date, and we blazed up before going into the ROM's dinosaur exhibit, haha. It's pretty crazy to walk by a 34 metre dinosaur skeleton (that's like, 110 feet for the imperial folk)
[quote name='"GillyTHEkid"']I'm curious to know how long.. I met this girl mid august at football camp, she is a athletic training major. got her number about 6 days later. I've been goin at it for about little more then a month and I'm not there yet. I think I'm making progress tho, slowly but surely is the motto. We're in college but she doesn't drink or smoke which I don't mind but it makes it tougher to chill cuz she's doing homework instead lmao. But I consider her wifey material and I want her. Lemme kno blades.. Cheers[/quote] Next time y'all just chilling at practice, hit her with an honest line. "I like being around you, but not just at practice". Something along these lines, your just looking for a reaction. If positive run with it. If she looks surprised, smile or even a wink. You have to try something or she will lose interest because she thinks you aren't either or can't take a clue. Good luck buddy I try not to lie to anyone, that's the governments job..!!
You've gotta be forward before she's snatched up by someone else! I asked my girl out on a date to play mini-putt about two weeks after meeting her, but she played hard-to-get. Despite the fact we'd already kissed, the first official date wasn't until a month after we met - we went fishing and, later, to the casino. We were pretty much an item from Day 1, but didn't have that official "define our relationship" talk until about two months later. Don't pussyfoot around if she's of wifey status. Those girls don't come around every day!