question: once you're friend zone'd by a chick, is there any way to get out? or is it forever a 'no pussy for you, but we can still hang out' type of stigma? serious question here. Just got friend zone'd by this girl I was talking to the last month or so. I suspect it was because I blew her off this ONE time because I really had to do something and couldnt get out of it. I guess she must have took it personally, because today she made it clear i'm not getting between her legs but she still wants to be my friend. Now she's messaging me wanting to hang out with her and some other people. To be honest, I dont really care to be her friend. Is it possible to get out of this without coming off as an asshole?