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Discussion in 'Beginner Cannabis Consumption & Tips' started by shellightful, Jan 19, 2010.

  1. #1 shellightful, Jan 19, 2010
    i love weed. if i could, i'd marry it. but i think that the fact that it is illegal opens up parts of my personality, that when i'm trying to obtain it, are very dangerous for me. i'm a suburban housewife with 2 kids. i look and play the part and if people knew i smoked, they'd probably flip out. i love my life and i'm very blessed and happy.

    with all that said, when i'm in the process of obtaining weed (i don't have a regular dealer/connection), i feel i have to go to the "dark side" to do so.... like craigs list, etc.... this for me, gets muh mind going and a domino effect takes place where i could become dangerously close to losing everything i have....

    i love this forum and have learned a lot, laughed a lot and thoroughly enjoyed it, but i would like to hear more about people's negative experiences with the whole paradigm of being a pot smoker. not just bad highs or getting ripped off or bad weed.... i want to hear how the personality if affected.

    i'm not trying to be a downer or bring on a buzz kill for anyone. i just don't know where else to turn to discuss this kind of stuff.
     
  2. #2 KANDY_BLUNT, Jan 19, 2010
    I think that in some people weed brings out the worst in them.
    They'll do anything for it.
    Sell/pawn their belongings.
    Steal from friends, parents...

    But that's only if they're psychologically addicted.

    I think everyone can be a good person and still smoke weed, illegal or not.
     
  3. #3 god4point0, Jan 19, 2010
    webehigh.com

    that should help clear up some of the sketchiness
     
  4. #4 shellightful, Jan 19, 2010
    thanks for all your responses.

    god; appreciate that site. my only problem is i'm always with at least ONE of my kids so looking for "stoner people" is not what i need to be doing. i need a hook up bad. lol

    smup; thanks for calling me 24 years old. i'm not 24 years old. ;)

    maybe i just need to not smoke....... :(
     
  5. #5 shellightful, Jan 19, 2010
    lol, my son is 5 and daughter is 22 months. if they can obtain weed for me i'm DEFINATELY doing something wrong on the whole parenting thing!

    cool about your dad though!
     
  6. #6 smupremurb, Jan 19, 2010
    I just came back because I realized my post didn't make sense lol. I just meant if you do find a solid hook up than you won't have anything to worry about, just don't deal with shady people. I am sure you know someone who could help you out, you might just not know it yet.

    I am not sure why I called you 24, I was going along the lines of you being a housewife and having 2 kids.. your completely under the radar for someone "suspecting" you of smoking.

    Just don't push the situation, be smart, if it's meant to be it will come around.

    Again, apologies for the whacko post prior haha
     
  7. #7 Sulli, Jan 19, 2010
    Is growing not an option?
     
  8. #8 shellightful, Jan 19, 2010
    no need whatsoever to apologize smup, it's all good. :)

    i thought about growing...... i think my husband would flip out if i suggested this. he tends to worry....

    i'm going to settle with what smup said.... if it's meant to be, it'll come around. this philosophy will keep me in check.

    i really appreciate all of your comments!
     
  9. #9 god4point0, Jan 19, 2010
    got any friends that smoke? if so they could hook you up with a dealer possibly. or as a last resort, go to a 420 friendly type concert and look for some there, usually once inside a concert venue no one cares what happens inside as long as it doesn't affect their liquor license or reputation. i WILL be back with better ideas
     
  10. #10 Zoom420, Jan 19, 2010

    I was in your spot too.. and I essentially quit smoking for a awhile because I wasnt dealing with the whole "score" element - plus I have a job where thats simply not possible... so I was basically stuck unable to smoke for a long time... other than the rare score through far away friends or family members from "way back".. and those were far between.

    Medical MJ and the dispensaries solved all of that.. and that was only fairly recently. Good luck.. and be careful. Just FYI, I know for a fact local task forces watch craigs list listings for their areas.
     
  11. #11 sandwichman, Jan 19, 2010
    hey, just find a steady dealer, trying to buy shit off of craigslist is really stupied, and you're just asking ofr trouble.

    also why not get a babystiter for a little while, while you go out to find tree, not too difficult.
     
  12. #12 shellightful, Jan 19, 2010
    yeah, part two.... my husband isn't too happy with me smoking.... maybe i'm going to let it go and grow the fuck up. YUCK!

    as happy as i am with my life.... it's rather boring being a housewife/mom..... grocery shopping, laundry, library, nursery school, soccer, etc.... i love it. it's all i've ever wanted as a little girl. why am i so restless now that it's finally here. weed offers me a time to chill out and relax.... check out and just chill. i like to smoke after the kids are in bed, watch some tv, eat some junkfood and then get up and start another day. i maintain my shit, i'm keeping my house in tact, going to the gym daily, making dinner every nite, interacting with my kids..... is smoking a few nites a week all that bad? am i just trying to convince myself of something i shouldn't be doing?

    moral dilemma here. thanks for letting me rant.
     
  13. #13 12on12off, Jan 19, 2010

    If you can operate successfully while smoking then there's nothing wrong with what you're doing. People go through out their days and sometimes stop to have a drink or two and have no guilt. Why should you feel guilty? Esp. since you're not doing anything wrong.
     
  14. #14 slappersonly, Jan 19, 2010
    Well if you're still looking for green I think I can be of assistance seeing that you live in MD. Anywhere near MoCo?
     
  15. #15 shellightful, Jan 19, 2010
    i think the guilt factor is that it's fucking illegal. i'm a good girl, really ;)

    all that taboo that goes along with it fucks with me.

    slapper, check ur pm's :)
     
  16. #16 L Rag, Jan 19, 2010
    If you are maintaining your life and your family and their futures well, and if it's not effecting you in a negative way..then I think you're just giving it too much thought. Although, being a parent, it's important that you don't get..well.. too blazed to be there for your children if they need you. I'm sure you don't need telling that, though.

    Everyone needs their chill out time. Just because it's illegal doesn't mean you should necessarily 'let it go and grow the fuck up'. although this is probably something you should be talking about with your husband
     
  17. #17 shellightful, Jan 19, 2010
    right... i am talking with my husband about it all. he's worried about me. not because he disapproves of weed or smokers, he's just worried about ME and how smoking could potentially effect me. i'm just trying to figure out if it's legit for me, personally.
     
  18. #18 ImmortalGropher, Jan 19, 2010
    I don't think you should quit smoking weed and I have a gf that doesn't mind that I smoke but she doesn't like if I do it all the time, try coming to a median, you smoke within a certain limit per month or something like that. 3 days a week or something lol. That's what I'm doing cause I'm too poor to afford weed all the time. Saves me money and makes weed last forever haha. I've got an 1/8 here that has lasted me almost a month. I still have like an oz and a half left i'd guess.

    If it's not affecting you, it shouldn't be a big deal, work it out with him, that's why you're married. I don't know what he has to be worried with about you honestly...You enjoy smoking, so what? I don't know any dealers either, my friend knows all the dealers here and gets me stuff and gives me a discount lol.
     

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