So Basically thru out my whole life i had Noo communication skills with women let alone beautiful girls. But! that all changed when i became a senior in highschool and became devoted to learn how a women's mind works. What I found was insane/ suprising and at the same time made a whole lot of sense. Basically a women wants something that she knows she cant have. But as she plays and gets to know the individual she quickly gets bored and moves on to the next individual. An on going cycle of relationships So what you do is not reveal your cards. Do not talk about youself. Rember every persons favroite subject are themself & their intrestes ; ). That wil create an aura of mystery and eventually the person will wonder why you are so interesting and little known about. Their imagination will fill in the blanks of who you are with what they desire. Paying attention to small detail is very important It takes time and a lot !!!! of trial and error and eventually one will attain the power of seduction. Some are lucky enough to be born with it. My favorite thing to tell everyone is to r ember that the guy who gets denied the most is the one who gets the Most Pussi Cat Anyways Back on point. I think that i can help some of the guys and girls on Grasscity with their current Fling, Spouse , GF or crush . A simple smile and brush of arm can make a whole difference of how that person views you. Please describe their personality, approximate age, maturity, Are they shy, insecure, wild, curious? Nd what you are trying to attain. Interestingly The hardest part to attain is a long term commitment, Sex is a easy step if one is confident enough About me: Im 20 years young college male. Im trying to major in social psychology and eventually become a social worker. I work curently at Club Space in Miami,Fl as a promoter
[quote name='"HitsFrom@Bong"'] So Basically thru out my whole life i had Noo communication skills with women let alone beautiful girls. But! that all changed when i became a senior in highschool and became devoted to learn how a women's mind works. What I found was insane/ suprising and at the same time made a whole lot of sense. Basically a women wants something that she knows she cant have. But as she plays and gets to know the individual she quickly gets bored and moves on to the next individual. An on going cycle of relationships So what you do is not reveal your cards. Do not talk about youself. Rember every persons favroite subject are themself & their intrestes ; ) It takes time and a lot !!!! of trial and error and eventually one will attain the power of seduction. Some are lucky enough to be born with it. My favorite thing to tell everyone is to r ember that the guy who gets denied the most is the one who gets the Most Pussi Cat Anyways Back on point. I think that i can help some of the guys and girls on Grasscity with their current Fling, Spouse , GF or crush . A simple smile and brush of arm can make a whole difference of how that person views you. Please describe their personality, approximate age, maturity, Are they shy, insecure, wild, curious? Nd what you are trying to attain. Interestingly The hardest part to attain is a long term commitment, Sex is a easy step if one is confident enough About me: Im 20 years young college male. Im trying to major in social psychology and eventually become a social worker. I work curently at Club Space in Miami,Fl as a promoter[/quote] So you are saying that you will give us advice on how to pick up women?
Pretty much, Each girl has a different desire and im tring to help you find what they are looking for
[quote name='"HitsFrom@Bong"']Pretty much, Each girl has a different desire and im tring to help you find what they are looking for[/quote] But how could you know what they're looking for? Suppose I was talking to a chick, wouldn't I be more accurate in what she wants than you? I mean I am the one actually talking the lady, you are just getting a description.
Thats true, If you KNOW what she wants than your great. But most guys assume wrong, thinking that the lady wants to hear how much you love her or buy her things thats not what their looking for
[quote name='"HitsFrom@Bong"'] Thats true, If you KNOW what she wants than your great. But most guys assume wrong, thinking that the lady wants to hear how much you love her or buy her things thats not what their looking for[/quote] Then what are they looking for?
[quote name='"Blaze"']Okay... OP. I am in love with a lesbian, what do I do?[/quote] Floories are my advice
They want to be heard out , have someone treat them like shes a super model, they dont want to hear reality: the words that you speak should make an illusion that everything is perfect and you are the only one who can bring them happiness and complete their insecurities. But if its like a party or one night kinda thing you approach it completely diffrent
Alright for this you must act as a women. Blend in with their environment. Put on the mask of a delicate flower but when a catfight approaches you must be ready to plunge for the hair
So when she finds out I have a dick, what do I say? It is just a really realistic strap on? What if she wants to muff dive?
[quote name='"Blaze"'] So when she finds out I have a dick, what do I say? It is just a really realistic strap on? What if she wants to muff dive?[/quote] Chicks with dicks, solved......
Alright OP, lets see how good your advice is. Im 20, a conversationalist. I've been talking to this one girl for Months dude, Months. She was introduced to me by my buddy because he dates her sister. This girl is innocent, not that savy and a bit dull. She doesn't talk about Shit. I always ask her questions about herself and i barely get an answer. I try to have conversations with her and they go nowhere, she usually stops replying. I talk to her on facebook, i used to text her and got the same shitty replies. I hung out with her a few times and she doesn't talk much in person and just kind of stares at shit. At first i thought it was shyness but i've been consistantly talking to her for Months, then one day i just gave up and stopped talking to her. My buddy told me that she told him that she was waiting for me to ask her out? I couldn't even tell that she liked me. I've recently started talking to her again and its the same shit. What do you say about this situation OP, Should i just say fuck it and find another girl or what? Shes 19 by the way
[quote name='"HolderOfTheBong"']Alright OP, lets see how good your advice is. Im 20, a conversationalist. I've been talking to this one girl for Months dude, Months. She was introduced to me by my buddy because he dates her sister. This girl is innocent, not that savy and a bit dull. She doesn't talk about Shit. I always ask her questions about herself and i barely get an answer. I try to have conversations with her and they go nowhere, she usually stops replying. I talk to her on facebook, i used to text her and got the same shitty replies. I hung out with her a few times and she doesn't talk much in person and just kind of stares at shit. At first i thought it was shyness but i've been consistantly talking to her for Months, then one day i just gave up and stopped talking to her. My buddy told me that she told him that she was waiting for me to ask her out? I couldn't even tell that she liked me. I've recently started talking to her again and its the same shit. What do you say about this situation OP, Should i just say fuck it and find another girl or what?[/quote] I can give better advice than OP's. Let me ask: have you talked to her about her "shyness"?
No i havn't, It doesn't even seem like shyness because its been consistant for months, i asked my buddy about it and he said "thats just how she is"
[quote name='"HolderOfTheBong"'] No i havn't, It doesn't even seem like shyness because its been consistant for months, i asked my buddy about it and he said "thats just how she is"[/quote] I'd go more into it but I just don't feel like it. In that case just go to the next in line... Why wait for someone who isn't going to talk to you?