Ok, I wanna say two things before I ask my question. I'm currently dating my girlfriend, we've been together for 3 years, and the spice is leaving, the relationship just doesn't feel fulfilling anymore. I've also recently started talking to an old highschool friend of mine, she's smart, funny, similarly thinking on a lot of major issues, but much as she makes me happy, I don't want to throw away my current relationship, but I'm not as happy ad I once was. Combine it with the fact that I'm probably friend zoned to boot, I don't even know how she feels. So I'm posting a question to the board. Should I admit the fact that I've cared for my friend for seven years so far, and risk my relationship? Or should I accept a friend zone sentence and enjoy having her as a friend?