checked on the ladies today and everything seems all good. but noticed a little ballsack under the stem. Please tell me they aint hermied on me.!
Those look like calyx's to me, I don't think you have to worry. If you suspect it may hermie, keep a close eye on it for a week or so and it will be clear if pollen sacks start developing, but IMO those are just calyx's that are starting to swell, because the stamen are shriveling back down into the flower and turning orange.
I wouldn't say they are turning into to hermie's howerver keep a close eye on them but im 99% sure they are fine and... they look healthy too keep up the good work !!