Just wondering how long till that plant bust a nut? Mine looks like that i was going to wait to make sure its a male.
if you want to cut it close (NOT RECOMMENDED) the seed pods wont release pollen until they flop over (their standing up now, they will swell and then lay down, after that its raining pollen over a very LARGE area. KILL IT and dont shake it or anything when you do remove it.....
its a dude. kill him, make sure not to shake it much as that will make the pollen sacks burst . and make sure after you kill it, get rid of it farrrrrr away from your plot.