A long-ish read coming up, but please, help a brother out I'll try to keep everything as simple as possible, but I'm sorry if I end up being unsuccessful at that So a while back, I had a thing going on with this one chick (call her Mary). Or I wouldn't call it a thing..she liked me, but I didn't like her for a number of reasons. A week or two ago, I was at a party with my friends, and this particular girl was there with her friend (lets call her Emma). On that night, I had the courage to tell this Mary that I really didn't want much to happen between us, and just didn't feel like we matched. She understood it and everything has been cool between us ever since.. now Emma comes to play. Emma is an amazing girl; she's smart, outgoing, intelligent (yes I mentioned intelligent and smart even though they mean the same thing, the thing is Mary isn't the sharpest pencil in the pencilcase and I now appreciate a girl being smart), EXTREMELY HOT, funny, cute etc. Obviously I like her. I messaged her the other day and just started up a random chat. We've talked about a lot, and we really match. Yesterday I was just cruising with my bud (with our bikes) and we stopped by the beach. I've known this guy for years and we've always shared our girl stuff together (e.g. helping eachother out, we even dated 2 girls who we're best friends lol hahah).I asked to test his bike since it's been a while since I've ridden a supermoto so I left my phone in his hands incase it would fall. This guy starts texting Emma saying stuff like "I'll get you two together one day" and the girl didn't reply "No thanks" or "Yes!"..she said "I don't know if thats smart, Mary is my best friend". That's problem #1. Also, when texting with her, she sometimes replies really 'enthusiastically', but sometimes she replies only with like a smiley face or one word. I know this is a sign of not being interested, but here comes the 'catch'. Sometimes I reply in the same way, and after a few minutes she says something like "God my ex is annoying" or "So what are you going to do after school ends?". Confusing as fuck. What is she doing? Long story relatively short - How do I make this girl get interested in me and stop thinking about the fact that her bestfriend would get mad because I used to date her. - Why is she sometimes excited to talk to me but sometimes not Also just a quick thing, on Saturday it's the national "Everyone above the age of 14 get drunk" day. Eeeeveryone is going to be out and I already made a deal to hopefully see this chick on saturday! Any ideas what I should do (e.g. ask her out or something)? I'll probably be pretty drunk/high so anything goes . Thanks already and please do ask if anything is unclear! Happy tokin guys ps. This chick is hotter than the sun so I really need help!