My girlfriend of ten months is very bipolar . I understand that . But i see things get crazy with the sex part . Every time she wants to have sex we have sex .. But everytime i say lets have sex she is like no i dont feel like it . Is that normal out of most realationships ? Because i think that we should both be able to please eachother when we feel like we want to ???
No means no. Even in a relationship. If you don't like the arrangement talk to her about it or leave. Those are you choices. Anything else is just wasting time. I'm a little confused as to why you brought the bipolar disorder into this. You didn't elaborate on why that has anything to do with your sex regimen. It's like you're saying you put up with her shit and she's lucky to have you in her life. She's bipolar. You said you understand that. I don't think you do. Her emotional mood swings and bouts of serious possibly life threatening depression will play a big part in her sex drive. It's not something you can separate like a detachable vagina. It's the whole package. If you truly understood this then this thread wouldn't have been created. Have you read up on bipolar disorder? Have you talked about it with her? Is she seeing a therapist/psychologist and have you met him/her yet? What have you actually done to help her with her debilitating illness? Is she taking meds? If not then should she be taking meds? There are so many variables and things to address here and you haven't given much to go on.
Yea it doesnt sound like it has anything to do with being biploar. Guys are more horny so girls can get away with having sex like that. U can reject her and try having sex when u want but dont ask her for sex try putting moves on her and just see if it happens. U sound young if your just asking her sex lol
is she REALLY bi-polar???? it seems like a lot of girls now days are. using bipolar as an excuse for their behavior. nice one moment total bitch the next..... but yea, if she dont want to fuck, she dont wanna fuck....no point in pushing it. another few more years with her and you are going to learn the greatness of internet porn