hey GC well basically the title says it all. I have moved to a new town and started a new job and stopped talking to my ex about a month ago. it was heart breaking, but i had to cut off contact. Im doing fine in my personal life. im over my ex for the most part. i have a career, i have a decent social life, and I am keeping in shape and going to the gym. But I am starting to analyze myself and how I have only had one serious gf (my ex). I have been on dates with other girls that never panned out, and I have no problem with talking to girls. I have friends who are girls and I am fine confidence wise and appearance wise. But for some reason...I have not found anyone. I guess im a naturally quiet/ shy person, but I feel like i have broken out of my shell for the most part. and I have friends who are wayyy more shy than me and are getting some and dating. hell i am cool with a friend with benefits. but i cant even find that. I am starting to get frustrated with it. I have adopted the mentality of "dont care about it and something will happen eventually". but being a 20 year old guy, its pretty hard to not notice a fine ass girl walking by. but the thing is...whenever i see a fine girl she has some d bag guy attached to her hip. i literally see it with every cute girl everywhere. at the gym, at a place im eating at. they have that guy tagging along whether its a boyfriend or a "friend" who you know is just trying to get in their pants. And I have female friends who are cool and i enjoy chilling with and im attracte to, but they have boyfriends. all of them. its starting to get ridiculous. so my question is...where is my shot? where are these dudes finding single girls to date/tag along with? i see it so often but it seems like the opportunity never arises. like I said i have no problem confidence wise or look wise. ive been called cute and ive been hit on, but lately its been by taken girls and thats never gonna pan out into anything. It seems like finding a cute girl who shares the same mutual attraction is never in the stars for me. I literally feel like everything in life is going good for me except for my luck with females. friends wise yea its good, but any luck sexually or relationship wise is zilch. i dont get it. im find without it, i have a life and im happy for the most part...but im sick of being single not gonna lie. or at least not getting any....and im tired of waiting...so what the fuck...its like a goddamn mystery. ive never been more confused about anything in my life.