Christmas. I wish I was kidding, what the hell is going on? Anyone else in the same boat or is it just me?
Thing is, I broke up with my ex this April...which means we didn't have sex for four months. He said he didn't want to anymore because of 'sex before marriage' or some bullshit. We have a one year old daughter by the way... So yeah I think him being that way has kinda ruined my confidence and stuff. This really isn't fun, Mr Buzz (my vibe) just isn't cutting it anymore. Sad times.
Heyyy, it's been 9 months here. I could have popped out another kid in that time, that's how long it is. p.s. I just lost the game. Because of you.
Damn...that is a long time. Have you tried dating around since the break up OP? Put yourself out there and a sexy dress to flirt up your body? You know as a girl, sometimes it's not about putting on the sexy outfit for someone else, but rather yourself. If you feel you look great then the confidence will shine. There's nothing wrong with dressing up and making yourself feel desirable.
Thing is, I tried that stuff for my ex to try and get him to loosen up a little and it didn't work. So it got me thinking that there's something wrong with me, especially since it all started after having the baby. He's an asshole anyway but I really think he's given me confidence issues.
Seriously fuck that clown. You deserve to be with someone who makes you feel wanted and sexy. Not someone like that. I know it's hard, I've had my confidence issues too. But I know one thing, that I will not let my confidence be taken by some douchebag who doesn't appreciate what he had. It'll take time but if you slowly work on those things with yourself, you can get through them. I'm sure you'll meet someone who can see your confidence and your sexiness and will help restore some of what's missing. You just have to make sure that it last even when you're by yourself. All it takes is that one compliment from a stranger that can send you over the moon and back. That stranger could be you.
We don't take kindly to your kind here. It's been six months, give or take for me. If I wanted to lower my standards I could've changed it, but that's not gonna happen. Suppose I'll hold out until someone catches my interest.
Are you that oblivious or are you just trying to be annoying? Outside of you and your gf nobody cares. It was a South Park reference. To cement it: nevermind.
I don't want to lower my standards either. Either way that dude doesn't belong in this thread, he's just making me jealous (I'm kidding, don't hate)