Hey guys, Spaz back. I've been less depressed, and things were getting better until last night. I was sober for the 2nd day in 3 months.Josh, damian,Stephanie,Michelle and greg were all drinking. Since I was the only one with a car, I decided to stay sober. We left around 12. Damian and Steph both promised me seperatly they would stop hooking up with eachother. Well, for the third time, It was a lie. josh and greg were talking to me, cause I was pretty upset by it. I realized that it didn't matter, and it was their lives getting fucked up, not mine. I was talking to greg (whose 24, im 18), and he was schoolin me a bit. I was tellin him i was upset damian was constantly lying to me, and breaking his promises. Once again, Damian heard and was trying to fight me while he was drunk. I told greg that I told all my boys this, Including Damian: I dont care who the girl is, or what you wanna do. If you're gonna hookup in my car, or inside my house, just give me a heads up first. Im not saying, be like " Joe, can I please bang this girl here". Just be like on the side: " yo joe, this girl gettin' on me, you mind if we chill in your basement or car alone?" Thats All I ask from my friends. The last 3 girls over, Damian's tried to get em in my basement and bang them without tellin me(the girls told me, and denied him). I had 2 people in the front seat, and FOUR in the back. Steph and damian started kissing. I was like yo, Damian, you know how it is in here. But now i see she on you, its chill. Just stop for a minute so we can figure out whose getting dropped off. Damian responded: "yo fuck you bitch, shut the fuck up, I'll do whatever the fuck I want" And started getting like that with me. I said yeah? Then get out of the car and fucking walk home. I've saved this kid from the cops twice now, Always give him rides when he needs em, and he barely gives me gas money. I was talking to josh about it, and he was like, yeah, I dont blame you, He ALWAYS give you an attitude like that, you had to do something. Stephanie in the morning was like yeah i understand. I made it clear to everyone that even me steph and michelle are real close, we're still different people. If I hooked up with michelle or steph's friend, they wouldn't be mad. Likewise, I wasnt mad at WHO he was hookin up with(remember, I said i realized it didnt matter), Just that he is constantly giving me an attitude, lying to me, and not respecting my shit. If someone is drivin you around, giving you a place to sleep at night, the least you could do is not bang a chick in his car or house, or atleast make sure he's chill with it right? so i called michelle in the morning. She was like, you had no right doing that, it was wrong and shit. I explained to her Damian becomes an angry asshole when he's drunk, and people like that drunk are the people that ruin nights. Michelle had even said it herself. She was like you're all jealous. I responded by saying, when I was drunk, I would get a little jealous when the two of you werent on me. But, Im ALWAYS trying to keep my friends happy, and accomodate them the best. Any advice? Should I not even try to resolve this again with damian until he calls me? any help would be great. Thanks.
If im correct in assuming that the girl that Damian was fooling around with was your old girlfriend or some shit like that then my advice to you is to give Damian the old fuck you. He sounds like an asshole anyways judging by the way he tried to start shit with you at the party. You don't need people like him in your life. Straight up tell your friends that you are no longer going to put up with Damian's shit, tell them that if they still want to chill with him then they can find their own ride and their own place to chill. You would be doing a misdeed to yourself if you continue to chill with this kid. Get him out of your life, find some new people, no use in wasting your time with a punk like him.
if it was me, im bien real with you. if fuck damien up real bad. he seems like a total dickwad. id have told him to get out of the car. and then proceed to pound on him. im sorry but disrespect is one thing i dont do. especially with friends. fuck damien.
UPDATE: I talked to damian, and he was like did I? and like laughed it off. Im tired of this shit happening. Im gonna be chillin at greg's saturday, and wondering if not damian is gonna be invited... And ontop of it all, he NEVER chips on for alcohol.
this guy sounds like a complete leach. i think everybody comes across these. i knew this girl mellissa like that - some thing. she was always being a bitch drunk and shrugging it off as "i was just drunk, who cares" she'd only hang out w/a bunch of us at once cus nobody was realizing she was never pitching in for weed, gas, alchohol, she never had her own ciggarettes. she even stole a guy from me b4. me and this guy were friends - liked each other - but both kind of shy. she talked me into having her talk to him on my behalf - so i gave her his number, and she fucked him the next day. after he was sick of paying for all her shit for a couple of months i ran into him and he asked me "how come u just turned on me like that?" turns out when she called him she told him i didn't want anything to do with him and his attention was creeping me out - he got upset and she "comforted" him and told him he could do better - her. after that i didn't want anything to do with her. me and the guy are still good friends but we never hooked up - cus in the meantime i met my fiance
yeah,well, I've understood a few more things. That these two girls are like the hos at parties. Don't matter if they have a bf or not, they on other guys. And i thought, say I dated one of them, and found out they were on other guys? It would hurt so much more then, than not having them love me now. So, we doin things right. This saturday, my boy greg havin a party. We gonna invite enough bitches so each guy can get one or two. That should get my mind off Stephanie and Michelle
If someone talked to me like that in my car, brakes would be applied, the car put in parked, and he would be pulled from the vehicle and tossed into the street.