I'm a female, 23. At the end of January 12 one of my best stoner friends got a new flatmate at the start of the new semester. The new flatmate (27) also happened to be a stoner. We got on great. Like from our first conversation we just clicked. I don't mean 'clicked' necessarily in the romantic sense... but let's put it this way, we spent nearly every night together since the day we met. It always remained platonic. I was really interested in him and I tried to make myself appear receptive to advances but I'm kinda afraid of making the first move. Not only because I'm a girl and have no practice at that lol, but if he wasn't interested I didn't want him to get all freaked out and stop hanging out with me... I dunno! We definitely flirted on occasion. He grabbed my ass one very drunken night and I thought we would finally fuck but then he passed out after one too many sunken battleships at battleshots. lol. All of our mutual friends thought we were shagging or were about to. They were all asking him and I about it. Then we went on a lovely weekend trip to Amsterdam together. I then thought if it's going to happen it'll probably happen here. But nope. lol. The trip started off wonderfully. We had a joint and some drinks before we flew there. Got right to the coffeeshops and got amazingly high. Having such fun. The second day we did a nice wake and bake at a coffeeshop. Chatted with some other tourists. Everything was good. The last day we were there he wanted to do shrooms. This is when things went bad. He just was so quiet the whole day. It was like pulling teeth trying to get a convo going. We were sort of on a brain train, fair enough but he just acted like he didn't want to be around me all day and we were doing what he wanted to do, end of story. After we got back a week and a half ago, we have hung out once. He's just sort of avoided me. I asked him what was up about a week ago and he said "Everything's fine. Your message makes it sound like we're dating..." I'm sort of thinking that's why he's being weird. Thinks I'm in love with him or something maybe. But really I'm not. We're both international students. He won't be on this continent anymore after a couple of months. And I know that. Really what I had in mind was being exclusive fuck buddies until the end of the semester. I mean we spent all of our time together anyways, wouldn't it be nice if we added getting laid to the repertoire? I mean... I'm prettier and younger than he is. He should want this. But I feel like everything would be fine if he just told me why he's practically been ducking behind trees when he sees me... (not really). What do you guys think?