Guys and Porn

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by yourHIGHness, Feb 19, 2009.

  1. OK.. i know guys love porn, and will still watch porn no matter how much they are getting it.
    Which is cool with me, I have dont really have a problem with that... except one thing.

    I want to join my boyfriend in watching porn but whenever I "catch" him watching it (say i just got home from work or an appointment) he always gets flustered and turn off the comp right away like hes hiding it from me. I obviously know what hes watching cuz thats the only time the computer ever gets turned off lol (i keep the comp running 24/7).

    I told him I really don't care and that I would like to watch with him. (Girls like porn too)
    How do I get this to happen? I dont wanna watch it on the computer cuz the chair is broken and I dont wanna break it more, lol. And im a little too embarassed to go rent one from the sex shop down the street.

    I wanna surprise him tonight when I pick him up from work. Any Advice, gentlemen? :bongin:
     
  2. naw I dont think there is any advice.. A guy is gonna let you or not let you.. Maybe he feels shy that hes beating off? Or maybe he has an addiction to porn and wants it to himself and his alone times. Who knows you have to talk to him about it not GC :) me and my gf watch porn together once in a blue moon though I try to get her to watch it with me more often but she feels uncomfortable because im being turned on by another woman... lol
     
  3. It's probably something he wants for himself.
     
  4. Maybe he's watching something really strange, and he doesn't want you you to know about his strange depraved fantasies.

    :D

    Just kidding, it's just kind of built into our culture. People are taught that porn is something you should be ashamed of, so he just feels uncomfortable sharing it with anybody.
     
  5. When he walks in next time you should be watching porn. See what he does. But, in an all serious matter. Just ask him next time you two are together. Hold his hand and be sincere when talking to him. :smoke:
     
  6. Hop on the computer, find some porn, have him watch it with you.

    If you have PPV, you could order one of those, though they are expensive.
     
  7. i cant watch porn with my bf
    i get the giggles because i cant NOT sit there and think about how fake it all seems
    im awkward



    but if i were you, id have it on when he came in or somethin
     
  8. Me and my old girfriend would watch porn when ever we could. It made sex some what more fun because i could get away with doing things to her like the porn stars did. Buy a DVD online and pop it in and go at him. What guy wouldn't love his girlfriend to surprise him with sex and porn at the same time?
     
  9. It is fake, I agree with you, flowerchild. But maybe he watches stuff he doesn't think you'd like, OP.
     
  10. u gotta sneak up and shit... wait r u trying to actually watch it or like use it to get u's horny then fuck.. cuz if thats soo then just act like ur going out, run down the street get some condoms or something, sneak into your house and just be all sexy and what not and start doing your thing. i dunno if that helps. hahah
     
  11. Double negative? Good luck with your porn endeavors.
     
  12. It's possible he feels embarrased getting turned on by other women. Of course, my girlfriend doesn't care, we've watched porn together (Ever heard of Pirates? haha)

    You need to be open and sincere about it. Be like, "Is that girl hot? I think she's hot"
    He'll feel more comfortable about it if he sees you "enjoying" it. (Not enjoying, but commenting...idk :bongin: )

    My girlfriend and i have an understanding. When we're out in public, often times we'll both be talking about how a girl we just saw is really hot (my gf is bi). To contrast, I don't care that she finds other guys attractive. It's a natural human thing.

    Not saying your boyfriend isn't mature, maybe just uncomfortable.
     
  13. He's probably hiding it because he's not used to jacking off in front of people. When you have to live with friends or relatives, you cover it up like it's nuclear launch codes or something.

    I was the same way with my first live in gf. She would catch me wacking it, and just the fact that someone caught me kind of ruined it. Plus she would always laugh too.

    Or like someone else said... maybe he's watching something he doesn't want you to know he's watching. One of my ex's best friends caught her bf beating off to GAY PORN and they were about to get married, he was supposed to be as straight as an arrow... she was really concearned about it too. I wonder how that turned out......
     
  14. All you have to do is bring it up in an open and honest way. Know what you're going to say about it (I.E. I think we should watch porn together) and have an open discussion about it, find out what kind of porn he likes (you should probably know what kind of porn you like first). The biggest thing is just getting over the awkwardness of talking to him about it. And when it comes to adult video stores there really is nothing to be emberassed about, 99% of the people who work there are pretty chill and very helpful if you're willing to ask.
     
  15. Pirates was filmed in my hometown, Tampa. That boat is an actual boat used for tours in Clearwater. Great movie btw.

    OP, just wait for him to come home to you laying naked on the bed with a porn playing then tell him you have been waiting for him.
     

  16. That's your best bet. Just have it on one day when you're expecting him to come home... let him catch you watching it, maybe then he'll get the idea.
     
  17. step 1: plaid school girl skirt
    step 2: school girl shirt tied up showing lots of cleavage with a bare midriff

    step 3: brazzers.com

    step 4: nikki benz or sasha grey

    you'll figure out the rest
     
  18. If he likes to watch porn.. well i have like 2 ideas...

    numba 1. go get a movie from your sex shop, dont be afraid you meet interesting ppl there lol, tell him that you want to watch this with him and act out the scenes..

    numba 2. say "hey i know you like to watch porn, how would you feel about makin our own." then send that shit to me, ill get it to the right people and then BAM! your a porn star baby! and he always get to watch you lol... idk lol im kinda high..
     
  19. Maybe jerking off is just really personal to him. Most guys start jerking off when they are like 12 and spend ALOT of time with their hand before they get a steady income of vag, over that time it can develop into a really personal private thing, hes prob just nervous.
     
  20. #20 flowerchild, Feb 21, 2009
    Last edited by a moderator: Feb 21, 2009



    uhh piss off? :rolleyes:

    im flattered you used one of your hundred posts to correct my grammar
     

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