So, today I did something that I know better than, I fronted a dealer 50$ and he dipped and claimed that "Someone took the money and called the cops on him". So in my defense ive known this dude 5 years, and ive fronted him money in the past with no problems as we live blocks away from one another. So obviously I want to break his fucking face, but considering that I am not trying to get a felony, is there any other way to handle this? Im in my older twenties and something tells me violence isn't going to end well. If I win, he calls the cops or his goons on me. If he wins, I get my ass kicked and he sends his goons after me. I called him and finally got in touch and was pretty nasty on the phone to him, told him he should at least hook me up with a 30 and we both take a hit financially. I actually told him to meet me on the street he took my money on and he basically bitched out "I was pissed" and told me to walk to his block, where all of his "homies" are. He promised he would hook me up with some in the future for the mistake , but quite frankly my issue is as follows. Im going to see this guy on the street regularly, he lives in my neighborhood and while I don't mind being a moron initially "First time shame on me" But would rather not be seen as a total bitch so I dont get taken advantage of in the future, is there anything I can do in person to try and make him realize stealing my money wasn't worth it without risking getting in trouble, or stabbed by his "goons"? I also highly doubt he plans to pay me back, but if I see him again what should I say/do? I want to show im not afraid of his ass, and that he still owes me. I basically gave him the benefit of the doubt and said since ive known you 5 years i'd rather not knock your fucking teeth in. From a depressed stoner.
Don't buy weed from him again, and let other people know. Avoid conflict at all cost. The drug trade is an ugly world. Alternatively, grow your own.
$50 bucks aint worth the drama .. i mean i can see if you got fcked out of $50,000 then do what you gotta do .. but $50?? .. LoL just let it go .. im sure you dont wanna be in a fucked up situation & think "all this over $50?" ..
Thanks and I do agree, but I don't just want to say nothing when I next see him and look like a pussy. Should I at least call him out like, "Hey enjoying that 50$ of mine bro?" or "Gonna hook me up with that?".
Also, don't front money again. No weed, no money. Lessons learned. A $50 lesson for you. Get a scale if you have to. Prevention is the best cure
OP, I get what you mean about not looking soft. Like you said, you live there and your turf is your turf....every single day. Looking soft can cost you down the line. Having said that, my advice would be move. Your neighborhood doesn't sound like a place I'd want to blaze up in, and we came up blue collar as hell. You said you're in your late 20's so without knowing any details about you or your situation, I'd say there's still plenty of time to bounce. If you spend your days worrying about not looking soft on a block like what you describe, then chances are you're not spending them doing something much cooler, like smoking in peace and quiet somewhere else. Probably with a better selection and price too. If that is not an option then I'm with the others. It's not worth the drama. Prisons are full of people who kept it real
Sometimes this is the only way people learn to never front someone money for weed. It may have worked out for you in the past, but all it takes is for you to get ripped off once. Sent from my SM-G360T1 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Haha that was great, really had me laughing xD. Thanks man and I totally agree, the issue is that its certainly not an option for the next few months but definitely a goal. That being said should I say anything if I see him in person? Seems to me that just ignoring the loss is also kind of stupid, I don't know, just a shitty situation overall. At least that put a smile on my face .
I'm not familiar with the neighborhood or you two guys, so I can't accurately judge the situation from here, but if I had to suggest a course of action it would be let it go over time. Phase it out. If this isn't someone who'd shoot you in the face then maybe casually holla at him when you see him in passing. Like, "what's up with that 50 man?" Firm voice but non confrontational. Basically what you're looking to do is diffuse the situation without looking like a punk or having to crowbar him in the mouth. The middle road if you will. He'll probably give you another BS excuse and empty promise, which you can half-heartedly accept while knowing nothing will come out of it. Eventually everyone genuinely stops caring. The money is likely gone for good. Short of just beating it out of him I don't see money retrieval as a likely scenario from guys like that. The good news is, you got an actual realistic and valuable life lesson for only $50. That sounds corny but in time that lost $50 won't mean jack to you, but the lesson(s) learned during the experience will have shaped you for life. Hell of a deal in your favor imo. I made a post or a lengthy comment a few months ago about what a huge difference it is between living in a legal or illegal state. People like you, and I when I lived in the US, have to deal with some shady ass characters on the regular when looking to buy herb. Compare that to someone in Colorado, Washington, or the many medical-legal states and it's a world of difference. I'm in Europe currently and have ez and cheap access and may not even bother trying to live in illegal states anymore if I ever return to the US.
It's pretty much middle class but the area where this particular fellow comes from is the "Lower Class" end of the neighborhood. I really appreciate all the feedback and the more the merrier. So I guess if I see him just remind him, and if he tries to deny anything stand my ground but don't seek violent confrontation. Would "You're not very smart buddy, enjoy that 50 you could be making hundreds off me right now, hope it was worth it" be good? Or is it better to feign ignorance "Ah well that's too bad, well get me that cash and we can start doing business again, I have alot to spend".
Take it as a lesson learned. "Someone took the money and called the cops".. that's bullshit. He's playing you. How is he gonna have his "goons" handle you if they can't take care of the $50 he lost? Getting fronted doe to move a $50 sack, and scooting off with the money? That ain't a dealer, that's bum shit. Not worth it to make a big confrontation over $50 bucks but if you see him definitely don't be a bitch. He "lost" the money. That's all his fault. You shouldn't be penalized for that. As far as I'm concerned he still owes you the $50 sack. Don't even hint at giving him any more business until he gives you what he owes you. If you tell him you have a lot of money to spend, and stuff like that, he's gonna keep pulling that type of bullshit on you (skimping you, etc.)
Thanks scribbles so when I do see him what should I say? Hey, you got that fifty yet? Thanks again for all the epic responses.
It kinda depends on what your neighborhood is like. I would (calmly and friendly) explain to him that he lost the $50, that it's on him, and he should still come up with a $50 sack for you. I mean, it's not your fault that he lost the $50, why should you be out $50 bucks? It's hard to say how to react without knowing your situation tho. Was he a good dealer before this? do you have access to other dealers? Do you have a good job that pays decently? Is he really with the shit or just a punk? Will you get punked in the future by people in your neighborhood if you let it go? Lot of shit to consider. I'd just calmly explain to him that it's not your fault he lost your $50 bucks.
Thanks Scribbles, in fact the first thing he said was "Im not responsible" so if he keeps that line up should I just say "Alright, you lose alot of potential business then man". Also, I sort of got him to agree to hook me up with half a fifty "Or so he says" so we both take a loss. Of course his story is bullshit, but should I accept the 25 and walk or call him a bum and see if he retaliates? As to your questions. 1. Yep, he never did this before and ive fronted him cash in the past. 2. Not particularly, but 50$ isn't the end of the world. 3. I dont know honestly, I am not in with the "Thuggish" section of the neighborhood, I know he has a crew of friends but just don't know enough to make any assumptions. 4. This is what worries me, I don't want to get punked or have to deal with shit talking. I do have some reliable dealers but it was early and I was desperate .
Nah dude, fuck telling him how much business he lost. Fuck splitting the $50 with him and taking a $25 sack. Tell him he is responsible for the $50 he lost. Why should you pay $50 for nothing just because he can't handle himself? Idk man I would interrogate the shit out of him about what happened (how he got took, where, who called the cops, etc.) and call him on his bullshit. You don't gotta be a tough guy but don't bend over for this dude. None of his story makes sense. He's playing you. If he was legit, the only person that would jack the $50 would be his dealer. And if that actually happened, who the hell would call the cops? He wouldnt. And the guy that jacked him sure as hell wouldn't. How old is this dude? He sounds like a little ass kid trying to get respect from the homies. Honestly who the fuck calls themselves a dealer, needs 50 dollars fronted for a weak ass power move, and then gets "jacked" for that $50? Dudes a fuckin bum bro.
This is where I worry I just have to kick his ass, and dont want to worry about jail/retribution. So maybe just treat him like the bum he is? IE: Call him out when I see him etc? Sorry to get so specific, this is just such a shit situation.
He will end up homeless if he isn't already. People who short bags don't stay in the game long. Also you should stop buying small amounts. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum mobile app
just make it clear that he still owes you the $50 bucks. It's not your fault he lost it. That's his loss. Period. Don't come at him all disrespectfully, but be firm. Say something like "bro you lost the money. not me. You Still owe me the $50 sack, b/c that's on you that you lost it". If he disrespects you about it, don't take his bullshit. He sounds like a fucking bum. If he was really with the shit he wouldn't need to get over on someone for $50. Sounds like a punk. Don't let him get over on you, because it'll just happen again and again.
Remember kids, don't join gangs! because bangers on the block be like..."Don't let me catch you slippin cuh.." pure. ignorance. the fate of the world on the back of a dollar bill...
