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Got caught :/

Discussion in 'Beginner Cannabis Consumption & Tips' started by theninjaway, Oct 17, 2010.

  1. My dad was talking to me today, and he goes, "I need to have a talk with you."
    So I get really scared. He goes, "I know you've been smoking ganja, I've been observing you. I haven't said anything to your mother, but she observed the sink full of phlegm you left this morning (I toked in the bathroom, hoped the shower steam would get rid of the smell.)"
    He says to me "Now, proceed with caution. Your mother has observed it, and she suspicious. They can test you for it. Your teachers may have been observing, and if you test positive, they can kick you out. Just proceed with caution." I go to one of the most expensive schools in town.
    What should I do? I've only been smoking weed because I feel like a loser, I have like a zero social life. I mean, I have a few friends that come by my house every other weekend or so, but I still don't feel I'm really doing anything. I feel like a loser and have been lonely which is my reason, it helps me not to think about it. What should I do?
     
  2. using it as an excuse is just gonna make you do more drugs to feel acceptable.

    do what YOU want, its YOUR life, who cares about everyone think says or does.

    ignorance is a theme kids love to live by.

    id just do what you gotta do.

    but dont smoke to feel accepted.

    just be you youll find a niche of friends at some point
     
  3. Make friends. Smoke with them. All your life's problems solved.
     
  4. Your Dad sounds cool and understanding, maybe your Mother will be the same way. It's a joke that they can drug-test in school. That should only be an option if they smell it on you, find it on you, or have a warning from a police officer or something of that sort.
     
  5. Eww you left phlegm sitting in the sink? That's disgusting.
     
  6. #6 DMX, Oct 17, 2010
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    Keep your shit on the low.

    Or just stop smoking.

    Edit: and dont use weed as a crutch. Everyones different, but if you have no social life and start smoking weed, it gives you a reason to NOT go out and make friends. I dont have a big social life, not many friends, dont hang out with people on a daily basis, and I spend most of my time inside smoking weed, getting fat, it aint worth it.
     
  7. Your dad sounds cool.

    Just be more cautious about it. He obviously doesn't care if you do it, but keep it real low.
     
  8. The school should only be able to test a kid if the parents sign the consent form allowing the school to do so. I refused to sign my daughter's drug test consent form. The school called and wanted to know why. I told them I wasn't going to let them ruin my kid's life over a joint. Conversation over.
     
  9. I say, take your dad's advice and just proceed with caution. Use it when you're sure no one will catch you and use it less frequently.

    Remember, though - marijuana isn't friends. It's not going to make you less lonely, it just makes you forget that you're lonely. You would be happier using it to discover who you really are, rather than make you forget your low self-esteem. You may even be able to find friends to smoke with if you look for them carefully. ;)
     
  10. You obvoiusly have some other issues.. Maybe go hang with your friends more.. Make new friends.. Get a girl in your life.. You know whats right, your just wanting us to tell you the answers.. :)
     
  11. Don't smoke before school. Keep toking in the shower, just wash your phlegm down.. *rolls eyes* Why you would leave it in the sink just sitting there in the first place is beyond me! But you have a sweet faja!
     
  12. get synthetic urine. or simply as ur dad said, proceed with caution. dont get baked when your gonna do somthing important like school or a job, do it outside, and dont leave any smell or evidence around. also your freinds sound naughty. < :(
     
  13. I've read his post about 4 times now and for the life of me I can't tell if he's being serious...
     
  14. Hey man I feel your pain, just understand that your highschool years don't define who you are. It's your own life and your own situation, if you don't have many friends it could just be that you haven't met that group of people with whom you click. It'll happen one day and mark my words that when it does it will all be worth it. Stay strong friend, you can do it.
     
  15. #15 theninjaway, Oct 17, 2010
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    Thanks guys,
    I was smoking like everyday after school, but I guess I'll just ease up on it because I've realized it isn't a substitute and fucking up my regular life isn't worth it.
    Right now I guess it'll be solely a weekend thing. I guess I'm really lucky I have a dad that's so cool with it.
    I also am going to try and hang out with friends more, and I guess my social life is just gonna get better as I go. I have alot of good close friends, and I just need to occupy my time with some other stuff instead of just sitting around and doing nothing at home, I'm starting judo sometime this month and I'm going to start attending a youth group.
     
  16. Do what you feel's right
     
  17. Extremely lucky.
     
  18. Just keep smoking and have fun, be yourself and youll find friends who like you for who you are and hopefully smoke which will make everything 10x better. and just a question, if you don't really get out often or talk to a lot of people, how do you get the bud?
     
  19. You Dad actually gave you good advice. I know it's hard to think about the future if you aren't happy right now. Whatever you decide you should try to take steps to not mess your self up.

    No matter how you feel right now or what your opinion of yourself may be you have to trust that it always gets better. Everything is temporary.

    If you feel like a loser it's probably because you are acting like or taking part in things which you believe represent what a loser would do or how they'd act. Try imaging a person you think is cool. Emulate them while adding your own style.

    What you like and the things that attract you are what MAKE you cool... just throw yourself into them with passion. It will pay off. Smoking or anything else are activities you participate in by choice, your choices should pay off and give you back a reward. Make sure you chose things that DO give you a reward.

    Keep your head up.
     
  20. Hey that's the spirit man. Getting involved in things like that really keeps you on a good track to maintain a good balance between your bud life and your average everyday life. I like to play sports and try my hardest in school so I prevent myself from falling into a pattern where I'm bored all the time and filling the void with more weed. Good luck dude
     

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