heres the basic story. i was smoking with my friend on the way to lacrosse practice. one of the sheltered freshmen told there parents they saw a high person at practice. there parents knew mine and told my mom. my mom and my step-dad preceed to tear through my shit to see what they can dig up. they're able to find my bowl but nothing else. when i got home my mom said she wanted to talk to me. she shows me my bowl and asks where my weeds at. i figured it wouldnt be to bad b/c she used to toke a little back in the day. i get it (about 2 gs left) and she freaks out. she starts going on that im addicted and and retarded for driving while high and that she knows im going to start doing meth and crack. im like what the fuck as she starts listing punishments; no car indefinately, grounded untill i get her trust back, and random drug tests till i move out. my dad wasnt so harsh b/c he smoked all day everyday in high school. Then my step-dad, who was a crackhead for 30+ years starts lecturing me about how weed led him to crack and how bad it fucked up his life. he is also giving my mom all these testing tips to ensure i dont beat the test. to get her trust back, my mom says i need to start getting better grades, but with the bar already set so high (only A's acceptable) i dont know if thats going to happen. i ve always been a B student even years before I started to blaze. and to make matters worse my brother, who is anti-pot, keeps spilling stuff i told him in confidence b/c he figures im already fucked. i figured everything would blow over in about a month or 2 but b/c of what my bro is saying and b/c my mom keeps wanting me to rat people out, to which i just ignore her, im not sure things are ever going to be normal. she says if i ever test positive im on steeper lockdown than i am now. i feel pretty fucked. Life sucks.
damn man. i guess if your dad tried harder shit he is looking out for you. but your mom? dude its not as bad as people say it is. my mom drug tested me for awhile. and went through my shit. wait awhile till they are done testing you. when thats over with start smoking at a friends house maybe? good luck i hate anti weed parents and siblings
Yo I feel you bro. Like my mom was just as crazy about things when I go caught, while my dad didn't really care because he used to toke (haha coincidences...) My mom wanted me grounded forever, I was grounded for 2 motherfucking years. I had to earn her trust back and what not, but I never got it thanks to trying to convince her that marijuana just aint as bad as she was brought up to believe. It was hopeless and if your mom is truly as similar to mine as I think she is, there isn't much hope for you either. Bottom line: Don't try to act like smoking weed is no big deal around her because it will just anger her that much more. Just pretend that you've given up smoking forever. And only smoke maybe one to two joints (2-3 bowls) a month to avoid failing tests. The next 3-4 months will be the worst, but after you adjust to the idea that your parents (mother) secretly hates that stoner in you, you'll be laughing at her ignorance behind her back. Now I just smoke whenever the fuck I want and don't give a shit what she thinks.
Honesty is the best policy. They will respect you so much more if you just come clean with all the shit you do. You don't have to say what you have done unless you wanna see em get red in the face or just to have a good laugh but really man just be honest. You will be less paranoid and the conversations you have with your parents won't be so tense.
Dude im i. The exact situation as you. If ur worried about passing the tests but still want to get high check out jwh-018. You can get high as hell off it it feels the exact same and everything. But for real grit your teeth and tell ur mom u want to change, i know ull feel like a hypocrite but some people are just closed minded and no matter how much evidence u have they will never belief you. JuSt stay strong and Stay high
damn that must suck, but think of it like this ... in the mere future, that shit will just be a funny memory...your parents aren't gna hold it against you forever, i'm sure they understand, being ex-potheads and all
Dude I got caught and thought I was Fuck but I ended up smokin again in like 5 months. But what I would do is punch your brother and tell him if he snitches on you again you'll beat him senseless. Tell your step-dad he's your STEP-dad. Just make your mom happy and your straight; worked for me. "Fuck snitches" Quote: Me
If you're 18, then don't put up with the bullshit. Assuming you are 18, you are an adult and able to make your OWN decisions, not having to subscribe to a series of piss tests because of something as stupid as that. If I were you, I'd find a friend with his own place and move in until you finish high school and get a job. And tell your stepdad he has no self control (or no brain) if he let weed lead him to smoking crack.
Word dude it sucks but it'll blow over. I got caught three times back when I was with my folks, one year I was smoking, the next year I was dealing, the next year I was growing. It blows over, trust me. My folks still love me, if anything it just makes them realize that you're becoming your own person and that they wont have control over you forever. Just take your punishment and be a good, responsible kid till their temporary anger fades and their indefinite love gains control over their actions again.
Whatever you do, dont be a lil bitch like your brother and snitch. Snitching is not cool. Seriously. People really dont understand how much telling on someone can fuck up their life. And move the fuck out if it really bothers you that much.
man i agree punch your brother...brothers dont fuckin rat eachother out thats bullshit on his part...and also dont worry shit wont be different forever, she'll calm down....i mean my mom caught me countless times during high school n she would always chill out after a couple weeks...unless shes really crazy like the dudes mom who fucking grounded him for 2 years for smoking weed?!?? thats fuckin rediculous shit..
i hate those pussy kids who tell their parents about peeps they see high or drunk. it just makes more trouble for everyone, even for the people who don't smoke. seriously, they need to just keep they mouths shut.
dude, if i were you i would plant a nice little 5er on that fucking freshman and get him in shit, or beat the living fuck out of him in practice, what ever your mom tells you about pot ask for scientific proof, man my brother was the same way he told my parents everything even my dealer , luckily my dad does pot but my mom was still pissedd, i found some shit out about my brother and told him to say one more thing, he never did because he knew he was fucked. im really sorry about your situation man, i would be pissed.
Don't worry so much bro. wait about a month pass a test and then toke again. Eventually your parents give up like mine, my dad is outside my door as im about to hit my bong.