Its been a year since I have talked to my mom because she screwed me over and treated me like a slave!!!! She only cares about her boys in her life and has craped on me my whole life and I reached my point where I cut contact with her a year ago. I asked my son in law to go get the rest of my stuff the other day from her and she refused to let him have it. Some of the stuff is a car along with over 500 worth of wood, a window, 600 worth of industrial fans, a wet dry vac, a motorcycle battery, tarps, 8 propain tanks, battery charger, $1500 worth of shelfing, zig saw, nails, hammers, screws, along wit over 3k of other things. All I wanted Is my belongings. But she wants to be a bitch!!!!!! So am going tomorrow to talk to the cops to press stolen property charges. Im tired of being treated like crap and want to see her in jail!
and no im not a kid im 51 years old is reason why am tired of being fucked by my mom who doesn't love me
Slow down slow down you didn't make much sense there.... Why can't you just go to your mothers and get your shit?
have already tried and she refused to let me have it!!! had my son in law go over last week to try and get my stuff and she told him no also
And you know as well as I do that your mother loves you god damn... You coulda killed the most precious thing she ever cared about and she would still love you because she carried you in her womb for nine months.....
I feel for you man. You are getting to old to deal with that shit anyways! Go get your property back. My family has fucked me out of my own things many times. Maybe the cops will just give her a shock and she will let it all go. Just know, If there is any hope for your guys relationship now, it will all be gone after going to the cops
[quote name="MissBaracuta" post="19421209" timestamp="1390898683"]have already tried and she refused to let me have it!!! had my son in law go over last week to try and get my stuff and she told him no also[/quote] call Johnny law but my above post stands as it is. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do but to say she don't love you.....
she has bluntly told me she is praying to god I go to hell!!!! All I want is my stuff back.. I have bit my lip for a year now and have tired friends and son in law to get my stuff back but she refuses to give it to me. I have done nothing but try to help her before our fall out. To be exact I have done over 50k worth of work to her house on remodeling and fixing problems for her in past 4 years to help her out. But because I have reached a point on how she treats me compaired to my brothers she doesn't see that is why the fall out between us. She treats my kids like crap but kisses by brothers ass left and right. To give example. 2 xmas ago. my kids got clothes for xmas. no big deal can live with that. but my brothers kids one got new car the other got computer.
I love my mother but can hate her too. She is the one who chose this not me. but have reached my limit not going to put up with her crap no more and not going to let her crap on my kids either when they ask me why they got this but my brothers got this... its bull shit!!!!
Offer her some man Then be like. We can be peacful and loving or We can do it the not so peaceful way
No offense sweety but does it really matter if she bought your nephews or nieces a car and your kids clothes? Hell no it don't Xmas is about Jesus and nothing more the gifts are just a plus brought on by corporate America. And to feel sleighted I guess is normal but will it matter in a year or two or five? If you answered no to any of those questions then you should understand where I'm coming from
Forget that im going to hell not cause I smoke pot just because im her daughter as far as she is concern. As I said I have tried to keep piece but when she treats me like crap and does anything my brothers want it gets old. this is not going on for just a short piece of time but for 51 years now. have had my friends and my church see how she treats me and ask me why I have put up with it all these years. Even the local police chief has told me to push the charges cause he has seen how she treats me. All I can do is cut all ties with my family even though I don't want to but for my own piece of mine I have
and no it doesn't matter what she bought my brothers kids for xmas that was just a example of some of the crap I put up with.
So....why didnt you pretty much cut ties with her decades ago? Sometimes all you can do with family youre bound to is keep distance, share little, and expect nothing. It typically makes those rare interactions better because you arent at each other about anything anyway.
Lol if she didn't give a fuck about giving it to you who are her child, you should have rationalized when it came to thinking your son and law would matter to her. OP idk what country you live in, but in a court of law the most this woman would get is slightly fined and legally required to return your possessions by a certain date or there will be future repercussions. I'm not a judge or anything, but I'm pretty sure this is on the magnitude of a Small Claims issue. This woman's not going to see jail time over withholding your possessions for a year, when she's your mother and you technically let her slide this long. Claims of "trying" don't hold up in court. You say you did, your mom says you didn't. Very solid claims all around right? No. Win.
Don't worry, she'll probably die of old age soon anyway and you'll feel awful for making this thread. Have a good day.
Just let it go man. Forgiveness will set u free. Let it go, let the stuff go, let the relationship go and be done with it....sorry ur in the situation. But life is only what u make of it. Keep being bitter and resentful and you'll end up like her...let it go. My 2 centsI'm a pathological liar. Nothing i say is true, ever.
First of all, you seem immature for a 51 year old (Edit: OP is a woman completely missed that, explains alot). Now that that's out of the way, go back to your moms house, politely knock on the door, and ask to retrieve your belongings. If she denys your request, politely step off her property and phone the police (NOT 911) and ask to have officers instruct your mother to allow you to gather your belongings, or charges will be pressed. Contact a lawyer if needed. Any excuse after this and I am calling troll. And for God's sake, call Saul.
