Before I get started, here is some minor notes about my uncle. -47 years old -lives alone in a 1 bedroom apartment -smokes 2 packs of ciggs a day -drinks everyday from around 6pm-1am, earlier on weekends. -has an awesome job, makes a shitload of money, and he has no wife/gf to spend it all on so he spends it on me and my siblings when he visits. -hes the kind of guy whos living the best life ever. Now, all in all about how awesome he is..he's still my moms brother, so hes a very close relative that we talk to. I see him maybe...once every 4-5 months, sometimes more. He lives in Northern California(Silicon Valley), and his company deals with alot of interns in college. The cool thing is, there interns get paid as much as their companies technicians do in SOUTHERN california. Computers are my thing and have been since I was about..9 or 10 if i rememeber correctly..So ill have a fersure internship, making money, living 400 miles away from any family that i dont want knowing i smoke.. Now my question is, while living with him while im going to college and basically working...how would i tell him i smoke? I mean ill probablly just tell him straight up, but what if he goes and tells my mom and dad or something.. We talk about some random shit when he's drunk, and its fun as hell. I've actually gotten drunk with him when i was about 16...he bought me a 6 pack of beer and him a bottle of Jose Cuervo. Anywayss...WTF DO I DO.