Ok, a little backdrop....... My wife of 7 years and mother of my child and I are seperated. She lives with her parents and I am currently living out of the office that I am currently employed in. I work 2 jobs and am working on a third. I suffer from insomnia so I might as well be making $ while I am awake, right? Anyway, a female I work with asked me the other day why I never holla at any females or try to make friends. It's not like I don't want friends but I am comfortable with the ones that I have now was my answer. She also wanted to know about the females part of the question but that was a harder topic to discuss. I'm not too quick to trust females anymore. I can admit that I have trust and monomagy issues. My own mother left me when I was young and a couple times after that and after a 7 year failed marriage, I feel as though I have to build a brick wall around myself in order to protect the only thing that I have left intact......which is my sanity. My questions are............Am I coming from a fucked up place? Am I the only one who sees the reasonability in this choice of living life as a recluse?