Sometimes I really think I am going off the deep end, but for once I like it. I never realized how much I cared what people thought about me and then I just stopped caring. I was in this on again off again relationship with a girl for a year and a half and just a couple of days ago she stopped speaking to me. So I decide to finally risk rejection and message this other girl. She's hot as hell and I fanaticized about her all through high school. She was real popular and I was kind of a nerd but I think she kind of had a thing for me. Anyway, it's almost Christmas break now for my freshman year of college.(Yea I know I joined the site in 2009, I already got suspended once for that so no need to again) I go to school in DC and she is in Pennsylvania and I really haven't talked to her since graduation but I just wanted to take a chance. I have red hot lust for her and I'll be damned if I'm gonna let an opportunity slide by. So I message her: "Yea Ill be honest, I always thought you were hot as hell and I regretted not doing anything about that in high school, so fuck it wanna hang out?" and now I"m waiting on a reply. Might be creepy, I don't know how it will go over but what do I care? If I never try I"ll never what could've been. What do you guys think? Was it a smart move? I'll let you know as soon as I get an answer.
Niiice. Dude once you stop giving a fuck you will achieve what you desire. Speak your mind and just don't be a douche
How would that be insane? You just told a girl that you think she's attractive, and asked if she wants to hang out. What's insane about that? W/e. From the thread title and the beginning of the story I thought you did something BIG like leave the on again off again relationship, quit your job, and decide to drive across the country to move to Colorado or someshit. But its good you hit the girl up. Hope she replies.
it would be funny if you get a reply that says "this is her boyfriend, and i fuck you up the next time i see you" lol
I pmed a girl in highschool once, or right after. Never heard from her though. I thought about the weird creep factor later. It's becoming pretty normal to text people though and when I was growing up this was all new shit. You either wrote letters or used pay phones lmao. You live once, I say why not. Just don't trip if you dont get a response. Oddly enough, I pulled into a fastfood joint ten years after highschool and a chick I used to know burst into tears at the sight of me. I was just visiting from out of town so it caught me off guard. She told me she had a serious crush on me in highscool and always wondered what happened to me since I can't be found online, but when I tried to come in and talk to her she wouldn't let me. I think her boyfriend was the manager lmao.
no response yet but it's only been like 3 hours so i'm not giving up hope t. I will try that Makizushi, it's just that this particular girl has some sort of sexual hold on me.
It's good you put yourself out there but depending on the girl, they might be put off with the way you came out with it. Most real girls don't want somebody that wants to be around them just cause of looks unless they're shallow and insecure as fuck. Idk, let's see how this goes.