You ready for my honest answer? yea. I think your a good lookin' cat. I dont think anybody knows it, and I don't think anybody can see it. you gotta highlight your attributes. you like a diamond in the rough.
I just gotta put a little more oomph to myself instead of derping around. I already have worked hard enough and I still do. I need to go out of my way to make it evident I'm trying to be noticed by chicks. Like not in a asshole way just looking good
You don't have to be an asshole. You have to be successful. Make sure your clothes look nice. They don't have to be expensive, but keep them clean and wrinkle free. Make sure your hair is clean and well kept. Make sure you smell either good, or at the very least, make sure you don't smell like anything. Get / maintain a job. Become proficient in something like music or a sport.
I think a music career is an unrealistic goal.. A pipe dream.. You might as well be lusting over a bugatti veron.. Keep your aspirations within reason.. Also, all this time you are worrying about "chicks" is wasted.. It isn't going to help you.. Maybe one reason they don't like you is your unrealistic career choice and the likelyhood of you just being another starving artist wannabe that can never provide.. Sure a girl might like a guy that can play a guitar but not some poor guy that is never going to get anywhere with his guitar but that is all he does..
Ouch And is hauling off and busting ass to lay pipes or whatever the fuck it is really necessary to just get laid when I was just missing out when 19 year olds I knew were fucking and I just sucked at getting laid the whole time? I need to fix being shit with girls not worry about being a millionaire and at this age I probably wouldn't put up with the shit I'd take at that job anyway
Plenty of people including myself make a career/living off of playing/performing/instructing music. it isn't a pipe dream. your logic could be applied to literally every single job field. "sure a girl might like a guy who knows how to build a house or fix her car, but not some poor guy that is never going to get anywhere tinkering on his cars in the garage" @OP don't listen to this guy. set a goal and go for it.
Musicians always take shit because their field isn't absolutely 100% practical or guaranteed to pay off in the long run. My dad has always kinda said something more practical would be better but I'd hate it it's not where my soul is and I've done enough soul sucking shit already to last the rest of my life. So I've endured the shit jobs because I know going into music was more of a matter of experience, maturity and confidence
Basically the reason I got none for years is that I was a pussy. I know that now. But it's led me more importantly to ask myself what exactly that means and that has more to do with character and less to do with money. I had 5k in the bank when I was 21 and jerking off to porn. When I met a girl and fucked for one of the first times I had like 20 bucks but I was a much different person. And I was 24. I'm very much a late bloomer
Shit, i was trialed as an adult at 16 and sent to prison for 6 years. I can relate to the feel of having nothing/nobody. I got out with nothing. Was lucky enough to get back to my home state with some money saved from work inside. I dont have much family , what little i did didnt want anything to do with me. Was homeless for little over 4 months working a janitorial job cleaning a few office spaces at night. Luckily a girl i met who worked at one offered me a place to stay. Little did i know id be married to her now with a 3 year old. I climbed out that dumpster , so you can too. Shit gets worse before it gets better. Keep your head up. Dont be down over some pussy. Theres somebody out there for everybody. If your that desperate, order you a pocket pussy, or blow up doll, theres all kinda stuff that could fix your needs. Or try going to a bar, arcade , bowling anything you enjoy doing then strike up friendly conversation with a girl your interested in. Dont try and fuck or date everygirl you run into. Keeping it as friends with a little hope one of her friends digging you . Sent from my LM-X210(G) using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Fuck sex dolls i'm going to NYC at the end of this month i may literally just get a hooker so that i can unload a cathartic and somewhat angry fuck of a guy who has busted his ass 9-5 for the past couple years with 0 action Then i will smoke weed, to try to forget i did so
Everyone you ever meet will disappoint you in some way. Time is money, and money is power. So time, when used correctly, is power. Learn how to fall so you won't hurt yourself. There's nothing more dangerous than a woman with a beautiful smile and a hidden agenda.
I feel you, I was what I would describe as pathetic until my early 20's. And I'm 6'5, so that shit can't be passed off on being short. You're right about money, too. Height and cash certainly help, but they are superficial and useless if you don't have the grit underneath, and don't dictate your success in anything. The kind of woman who wants you for those things is not the kind of woman you really want, either. My advice is do shit that terrifies you. I was particularly afraid of danger in the form of heights, speed, and conflict. I began downhill mountain-biking and competitive grappling in my early 20's and both completely changed my life, and very quickly. Doing those things make you feel like a bad motherfucker because you become the kind of person who isn't intimidated by your doubts. In turn, you grow to respect yourself. And women have great natural sense of detection for self-respect. Impose a rite of passage on yourself, you know? Hey man best of luck with it either way
Well yeah I'm discovering more and more with time the only rules that matter are what a man can do and what a man can't do. Like capn Jack Sparrow said. I'm Ialking to a girl from tinder rn who wants to move in w me and she wants to work as a stripper. Doing it might be the stupidest shit I've ever done or it might be the best bc it will force a lot of the pettiness out of me now that I have a lot of accountability on behavior I'm responsible for. Don't plan on marrying her but I figured being seen with her around campus might help advertise too because I'm lazy at introducing myself to random ppl. Probably gonna fuck my life up but oh well like it ain't already. I feel myself entering a YOLO phase but with a certain manly abandon, as in, my youth is already fading so what do I have to lose by letting loose. Just wanna make sure I don't fuck up school. In other news, my drug dealer wants to borrow my car for "free weed". Yeah like that will end well. Should I keep fucking with him if hes trying to screw me or what