So just to make things clear, I HATE facebook. It's a big waste of time & just causes problems. My boyfriend of 3 years (off & on) just made one & he refuses to add me. He says there is no reason for me to be on there. He sends me messages & pokes me non-stop...but won't add me. ...He MUST be hiding something...it's the only logical explanation...but he swears he isn't. I feel absolutely fucking retarded getting mad over something as stupid as facebook. How would you feel if you were in this situation?