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Discussion in 'Real Life Stories' started by Popped_A_Molly, Jan 28, 2014.

  1. dont be a jackwagon, i already explained why i thought it was a wedding ring. read and understand the post before commenting.

     
  2. Dude don't listen to these rude comments. Their hating cause they ain't in your shoes :smokesmoke:Give it to her, and make sure that you get some alone time when your about to "propose" haha.If she's cool and your digging her you have to step it up. Your only possible regret would be never telling her anything.....
     
  3. [quote name="moabfighter" post="19423394" timestamp="1390937214"]So... you haven't even fucked her?dude. You're her safety net. When she has problem, she comes to you.Girls like dick. If she ain't getting it from you shes getting it from someone else. I promise.You're confused as to what's really going on. Stop being in denial.[/quote] Lol no, she doesn't bring her problems to me, she is still a virgin but she wants the d- yet AGAIN it is complicated and we just got together again after a big fightSent from my SGH-I747M using Grasscity Forum mobile app
     
  4. Together again? You werent ever together i thought.

    I cant claim to know your relationship, but based only on what youve said she just sounds like a close friend you share problems with.

    And you said youre essentially friends with benefits? And youve only kissed? It still sounds like youre over estimating the relationship....but best of luck i spose.
     
  5. [quote name="Snoop Toad" post="19423530" timestamp="1390938593"]Together again? You werent ever together i thought.I cant claim to know your relationship, but based only on what youve said she just sounds like a close friend you share problems with.And you said youre essentially friends with benefits? And youve only kissed? It still sounds like youre over estimating the relationship....but best of luck i spose.[/quote]Hmm tryin to make it more simple than it is, its a long story but makes much senseSent from my SGH-I747M using Grasscity Forum mobile app
     
  6. #46 Cawdswallup, Jan 28, 2014
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    You could always wear the ring and start cross-dressing. 
     
  7. she'll like it trust me. i got a bracelet and ring for a best friend that was basically was my girl. 
    it's the thought that counts - her and I dated for 2 years after..
     
  8. [quote name="codswallop" post="19423539" timestamp="1390938800"]You could always wear the ring and start cross-dressing. [/quote] good idea. I like having backup plans
     
  9. Getting cheap jewelry is always a bummer, sorry.
     
  10. [quote name="Honest American" post="19423546" timestamp="1390938838"]Getting cheap jewelry is always a bummer, sorry.[/quote]Keep in mind its all I have and still technically a teenager. Its not a wedding gift.... Its all I could afford. Plus, I don't want her to feel guilty and her try and outdo me. Its not a competition of price, but of meaning
     
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    I think she wants the D guys.
     
    Just give her the ring and say happy birthday. Ain't that hard brotha.
     
  12. #52 Shiva Blaster, Jan 28, 2014
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    Just a tip for the future.....if you have a smaller budget for a gift for a girl, jewelry probably isn't the way to go.   Yes, it's the thought and meaning that counts, but cheap jewelry is just tacky and well, looks cheap.    For $80-90 you can get something just as meaningful but that is of a higher quality.....you could even plan a really amazing date for that price and take her somewhere really nice and let her know how you feel for example. 
     
    Leave the jewelry for when you have a few hundred to spend and can get something nice.
     
  13. [quote name="Some Asian Toker" post="19423580" timestamp="1390939191"]I think she wants the D guys.Just give her the ring and say happy birthday. Ain't that hard brotha.[/quote] lol one time got an insanely bad concussion, she called me the next day and talked for hours even tho I couldn't remember anything she wanted to make sure I was okay :) called me many nights and talked foreverrr aha, she would sometimes fall asleep on the phone .
     
  14. [quote name="Shiva Blaster" post="19423588" timestamp="1390939338"]Just a tip for the future.....if you have a smaller budget on a gift for a girl, jewelry probably isn't the way to go. Yes, it's the thought and meaning that counts, but cheap jewelry is just tacky and well, looks cheap. For $80-90 you can get something just as meaningful but that is of a higher quality.....you could even plan a really amazing date for that price and take her somewhere really nice and let her know how you feel for example. Leave the jewelry for when you have a few hundred to spend and can get something nice.[/quote] Thanks for a reasonable answer- and for not being and ass about it! It is too late this time but for sure is a great point. ThanksSent from my SGH-I747M using Grasscity Forum mobile app
     
  15. just give it to her, you already bought it so might as well? probably should have thought it through a little first tho. i mean to be honest if a guy i wasn't even dating bought me a ring because he likes me so much, i would turn the other way with the quickness, immediate friend zone. it seems too, i don't know, like needy for me, like you would be one of those boyfriends that are so whipped they can't see straight, like you'd do anything at the snap of this chicks fingers. fuck, i really don't mean to be a rude but for lack of a better wording it makes you look like a pussy whipped bitch lol.

    i had a guy friend i was real close friends with, kind of like your situation we both had our problems and talked to each other about em. well dude started to catch feelings i guess so he started buying me all these gifts to express his feelings for me and it kind of ruined our friendship. i found it weird as hell, like we're friends and you gotta go buy me things to express your love which i don't feel in return and make it awkward? nah, just tell me how you feel with out the material items and we'll go from there, if i'm not into it makes me feel real bad for rejecting you and this gift you bought for me.

    but you bought so noe you gotta go for it and hope she feels the same


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  16. Go big or go home OP.

    buy her a Louis V bag or something.
     
  17. I would've took that 90 bones, went an bought a bottle of Hennessy, some fire ass reefer, and some condoms. Show that bitch I'm the man. No offense OP, but you kinda seem like an over sensitive, feminine, lil bitch. Girls and Women like Men, not little boys who go buy them matching bracelets an shit. Sent from my LG-E970 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
     
  18. Again, you're her safety net. Been talking for how long and she isn't your girlfriend? 4 years? You insist shes into you but ive never had a girl talk to me for 4 years that mutually liked one another and not fucked.
    you MIGHT have a case once you fuck her.
    But for now you're just wanting something that clearly isn't there.
     
  19. #59 Shiva Blaster, Jan 28, 2014
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    Don't listen to the Debbie Downers OP, go for it.    No one should be taking girl advice from dudes with shirtless selfies as their profile pics, lol.    If he had a gf or knew anything  about women, he wouldn't be posing in front of a mirror like he's in an ad for a gay escort agency.
     
  20. You have the nuts to buy a ring but not enough to ask her to be your gf after 4 years?
     

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