Girls dont start conversations?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by exonmoble, Nov 21, 2011.

  1. So there's this girl that i like from my work, we've been out on one date. But unfortunatly she's gone home for the summer break (3 months) so i have to talk to her through FB.

    However, it seems i need to initiate all comuincation via text and fb. Not sure if she isnt interested or she expects me to start the conversation.

    Any blades here had an experience like this? do girls expect the guy to start the majority of converstions??:confused: or is she just not interested???
     
  2. boring chicks are boring.
     
  3. meh, she's really hot and not that boring.
     
  4. Right when you are about to stop talking give her something to think about. Then dont start a convo.
     
  5. what do you mean?
     
  6. She's not into you.

    Trust me, when a girl likes you, she won't leave you alone.

    AND if she's playing mind games, fuck her, we don't need that.
     
  7. Well, i like her. Really want to make this shit work.
     
  8. fuck texting and facebook dude. get her to hang out in person. or call her.
     
  9. awesome sig btw. lol
     
  10. I dont think she is into you.
    when a girl Really likes someone they let you know, or they get all emotional & shit.

    she knows that you like her, so why would she bother to text you or whatever, if she knows you are gonna do it. girls like attention, specially from guys, she knows her plan.
     

  11. She's back home for the summer break (it's summer where i live) so cant really talk to her. Calling her up seems a bit too much at this early stage. And we talk alot when i actually see her.
     
  12. You have a point. However, she does get emotional and shit i.e is shy and blushes around me. Also she seemed really interested when i asked her out, saying yes pretty much before i finished my sentence then blushing and looking away.

    But yeah, you do make a good point. she clearly knows i'm interested, maybe that's why she doesnt bother to really start conversations apart from once.
     
  13. #13 Number1Indica, Nov 21, 2011
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    she went home for summer break in november huh?

    lol didn't see ur from NZ :D i was lke teh fuck...


    so on topic, she either not interested, shy, or not interested

    women usually like men to take charge, some especially in conversation

    or she just a boring ass chick
     

  14. She's going on summer break in november? thefuck?! she sounds uninterested, from my experience most girls won't leave you the fuck alone if they're into you, unless maybe she's a really shy type then you might have to look a little more into how she talks to you and how she acts around you...
     

  15. It was planned for a while. Basically i know her through work once i heard she was going away i was like "fuck" i need to make an impression on her before she goes away.

    I live in New Zealand college breaks are from Nov to Feb.
     

  16. and yeah, she's pretty shy. I kinda get the feeling she's virgin for some reason. Possibly because she acts so innocent.
     



  17. girls are naturally emotional even the biggest bitch, it seems that she is giving you mixed signals, but is because she likes the "im having attention" game, play the same game she is playing or dont play her game at all.

    If she likes you she may seem like she listens intently and finds your jokes funny.



    If she seems toung-tied, or if she blushes and smiles a lot, those are signs she likes you,


    If she goes out of her way to keep in contact with you, then she's making an effort to be in your life.



    If she seems to be really listening and asks questions about you and what you're saying, it's a sign she's paying attention to what you have to say.

    so, what do you think?



     
  18. If she likes you she may seem like she listens intently and finds your jokes funny.

    YES


    If she seems toung-tied, or if she blushes and smiles a lot, those are signs she likes you.

    YES


    If she goes out of her way to keep in contact with you, then she's making an effort to be in your life.

    NO.

    If she seems to be really listening and asks questions about you and what you're saying, it's a sign she's paying attention to what you have to say.

    YES

    so, what do you think?

    I think i'm fucking confused.
     
  19. Go a few days without initiating conversation. If she cares, she'll initiate it.
     
  20. I've been in this same situation dude I had this girl I liked but I needed to keep intiatianing the conversation turns out she wasn't so into me. Then there was another girl who hit me up everyday didn't leave me alone she was rlly into me
     
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