For all the Bladies out there, i am in need of a concensus as to your opinion on your "special spot" Ive taken it upon me to do research and find this illustrious spot only to wonder; How much pressure is enough when youre fingering her? Is it different for every girl? Is the "come here" position of my fingers an acceptable position or are there any secrets i should try? Any absolute "DO NOTS" ? Your help is greatly appreciated.