Okay city I need some opinions. My girlfriend of the past month seems to have intesrest in other people. She first did some sketchy shit and basically saw someone and got outta there fast cause it made her "feel weird" to see this person. Now she's telling me she's got a crush on a chick that goes to class with her. Posting flirting things all over the girls facebook and texts. Am i in the wrong for feeling down about this. She says she's loyal to me and doesn't wanna lose me (We have a long history as friends and were in a relationship earlier in life.) But idek what to think at this point. My girl doesn't want a 3some
hmm, thats deep, do you live in the midwest by chance? edit: the reason I ask is that sounds like an oddly familiar kind of scenario from someone elses POV
sounds like your girl might be trying to setup a three way or bone another girl either way you are winning
Alright cool, well in that case I'd say its probably fine. I don't know what kind of lifestyle you are involved in but I kinda strayed from my rule of never getting with a raver, and I feel kind of like that guy who would've made your gf feel weird, but anyways, are you comfortable with open relationships like that? Because some girls are just really flirty and touchy feely without it specifically being sexual. In almost all situations like this though feeling eventually arise in somebody sooner or later, but I think some of it might just be, idk, conflict of interest. I don't even know fuck it I need to stop doing ecstasy and talkin to girls at raves or something lol I wish I could get down with recklessly casual sex but for some reason I've somehow adapted to somekind of fundamentalist Christian moral guidance system or something. Oh well, I wish I could help you more but no lie your post made me think multiple times about the situation I'm in
If it's gonna bother you, shouldn't keep things going without communication. You seem level-headed man, just talk to her about it. Issues early on not resolved only make the break up down the line that much harder. Hope things work out man, but everyone's different... just talk to her.
Yeah this is the second time i've came to her calmly about it. She gets an attitude and then says shes gonna cut contact with the girl. But I'm not trying to be the ass that burns bridges i just don't understand why she has to openly flirt with her. She just said that this is one of the first girls she actually has really liked. How am i suppost to take that It makes me feel pretty mad. Am i Not enough for her to be happy with like srsly? smh
Well yeah this whole thing started cause she asked if i would be mad if she kissed a girl that she liked.
Invite her and the girl she likes to chill at your place, and edge 'em on. When the panties come flying off, whip your dick out. Your girlfriend will be in the moment and can't refuse. Instant 3some.
Maybe to you, But I don't care about how your chromosomes are arranged. Even if it is another chick it's still a person.
I was gonna say, if you feel uncomfortable with her seeing another guy its a double standard to not feel the same way about it being a girl. It's always good to see morality in society
Dude I don't know, I like girls and all that too but I know if I did anything with anyone male or female my boyfriend would obviously flip out and I respect our relationship too much to let something physical get in the way of what we have. Cheating is cheating to me no matter the sexual orientation, especially if you're clearly getting pleasure out of being with the same sex, and she's basically asking if you're cool with an open relationship.
Where in central Florida may I ask? But I went through a girlfriend having a girlfriend, and at first it was awesome and I saw no bad side...but honestly after awhile it kinda hurt...cheating is still cheating. 3ways or not if there's a relationship not including you...it will end up making you feel like shit. Careful road there my friend.
