My girlfriend won't give me a bj. We are seniors in high school and this is the first relationship for both of us. It has been almost a year and a half since we started dating. My girlfriend does not like the fact my dick is uncircumcised and would not even go near my dick at first. After a while, she got over it and has given me a couple handjobs but I can tell she does not enjoy doing it. I've asked her many times to try giving me a blowjob just once but she says "its gross just because it is." I've asked her if she just doesn't like my dick but she always tells me that its not my dick and that she just thinks oral sex is nasty and that people shouldn't be doing it. I've tried giving her oral sex once but she did not enjoy it, saying it was so insanitary for me to eat her out. I don't want to keep arguing and having fights over this. Should I just give up on trying to get a blowjob or could there be some underlying reason to why she won't blow me? She is totally okay with vaginal sex though, and we will do it sometime when we have more free time after college applications.
Why is this your first post? My girl has TMJ an let me tell you... BJs aren't shit when you can get a quality foot job.
She thinks your dick is ugly, she doesn't want your face between her legs and she parcels out sex like clean water in Africa? I think sexual satisfaction is the same as attraction in a relationship. If it's not there then I will find it outside of the relationship.
she sounds like the kinda girl that wouldnt know if you were cheating, so i say either dump her or just find someone else for your fantasies, but, ultimately, its up to you.
There are plenty of fish in the sea.... fish that are sucking and fucking while filling out college applications....Just sayin'
Maybe......but then you would think she'd like getting eaten, which she did not ( idk WTF thats about) maybe she didn't like how he did it or that it wasn't a girl doing it....idk, Fuckin' bitches be confusing.
I like women, and I don't like being eaten out. I've never gotten anything out of it, and not or lack of trying. Including multiple attempts made by someone who I'm certain knows how to do it properly. Oh well she can suck on my titties instead. I'll get off every time. I'll give though, to a male or a female; I love being able to give that much pleasure so easily. I may never experience it myself, but I'm not the kind to be jealous about that. I'll give oral have tons of fun doing it...unless its a guy with a really huge dick. Then my jaw gets hurts, I can't breathe, and I just can't keep it up. OP, are you hung like a stallion? Otherwise, she should get over herself and do something for your pleasure. It's not gross. It's not wrong. It's not mysoginistic of you to want her to do it, and its not dirty of her to do it. Refusing to give oral sex for no reason is a dick move. She sounds really immature, and will probably grow out of it, but probably not while she's with you. My advice? Dump her and move on.
