Well. We started dating 9 months ago. 9 months today might I add It has been my longest but toughest relationship ever. When we started dating she asked me not to smoke weed and she would stop smoking cigs. I agreed. I hadn't been smoking that long before it anyways. I quit for 3 months. 3 months later...my best friend and I needed a ride to this little mall to get some food. He said only if we smoked with him. I agreed to. Let me tell you. After those 3 months...and just smoking a bowl...I was fucked outta my mind. Eyes about to pop outta my head, colors getting blurry, and head floating. I felt so awesome. It was the best feeling ever. I vowed then to never quit weed again. My girlfriend has asked me multiple times to quit and I agree but don't. I love her to death but I just wanna be myself. She always goes "So smoking is aprt of who you are?" I just wanna be like "YEAH BITCH! SO WHAT!?" Anyways. She always guilt trips the shit outta me on everything. Half the time we talk I feel like shit. The other times are amazing. I love the girl to death and want to stay with her...but I just wish she shared my passion about smoking. If she doesn't start agreeing to me smoking soon...it's the boot for her. I am not going to live my life to impress anyone else. Shit...I probably won't even marry her. I don't want to look back and be like "Wow...I quit smoking that long for a chick who I'm not even with anymore? I am a dumbass." Any suggestions? Oh, and BTW. She used to be in to smoking and she did tons of shit. Then I dunno what happened really. This was before we started dating...but I think she quit cuz her friend's are dumbasses and let weed ruin their lives and fucked up in school and started doing other drugs.