So this girl I've been hooking up with and tried to give me some head but wasn't too good at this. She was asking me to tell her what to do and I didn't really know what to tell her cause she would just gag without even having that much of my dick in there. How could I help her?
There's some funny shit flying around here tonight......I'm hitting the bong again.. Ok, I'm back......if she really needs some coaching and is asking for your help in teaching her how to suk your dick, do this; do a google search for aggressive blowjob and show her a few, then tell her, "I would never expect that you do that with me, but it's how a version of it is done....."
Some bitches have a really sensitive gag reflex, the gag ain't nuthin, as long as nothing comes up after it.
That sucks. She probably has a really bad gag reflex. Just tell her to go as far as she can comfortably go and work the hands Oh and porn. Porn is always good
If she's asking what to do, you need to guide her. Encourage her to have fun and just get to know you with her mouth. Tell her to pretend like she's a cat. Fuck if I know. If she's new at sucking dick, it may take her a while before she's actually able to make you come via oral alone. The biggest part is just getting her comfortable enough down there. If you don't like something, say it. Don't ooh and ahh for things that don't work for you. Make sure she knows when you like something. If she's not into gagging, don't shove it in. Kiss her during and afterwards.
How to Suppress the Gag Reflex: 10 steps - wikiHow Also, tell her you're washing beforehand (do it) and get some body chocolate (or flavoured lube.) It's probably largely psychological. ((I didn't read your question carefully enough. If gag is just her problem then the first link will help. But then I wrote all this other stuff out and don't really want to just delete it.)) A good bj involves variety, creativity, enjoyment, and maybe a little bit of self debasement (don't necessarily tell her that last one.) Start with a warm up, maybe her just licking you.. pretending you really are a popsicle or something delicious. Then perhaps she starts to focus more on the head. Licking it from where it meets the shaft until the end. If you're uncirced, she should know she can lick fairly hard. Then starting to suck on that, kissing it. Sort of kissy/making out with it, lots of tongue. Then she starts to take more of the penis into her mouth. She can start going to the bottom of the shaft, but also tonguing the head when she moves the other way. She should remember to actually suck it hard too. If her gag ever improves, and she can take more of it in then she should really try swallowing.. that's how you get really, really deep and it apparently feels awesome. By that point, she's also made a ring around shaft with one of her hands. She could also cup your balls with the other hand. Alternately, it's kind of fun if you hold her hands back and watch her trying to go at your cock face first. As she goes up and down on your penis with her mouth, she can follow that with a harder pressure of her hand too. Maybe she does a well saliva lubricated Indian sunburn type thing, where she's going in different directions with mouth and hands. Depending on how much you like your balls played with, maybe she's slightly pulling on them or massaging them with her other hand. If you've taken a shower, she could switch her mouth to your balls too.. not sure she'll be willing to do that and def not her first time. Maybe she just maintains pressure on the cock while she's doing that. When she goes back to focusing on your penis, she could try approaching it more like a flute this time, rather than just licking it again. Sucking up and down the underside, some contact with the smooth fronts of her teeth. Special attention to the area just under the head if you're cut, if you're uncut it may be too sensitive there. Then back to taking it all in and sucking. A little bit of drool might be ok; lubrication is important. That move tonguing it when it becomes possible as she moves her head up should be developed. If you're on the bed with her on top of you and she's on her knees/hands and knees, she might want to make it a full body effort, so her breasts and ass are boucy/ fun to watch while all this goes on. She should look at you once and a while too especially while doing a full lick from base to head. She should be topless too. She can rub your head against her nipples. Depending on the amount of boob she has, she might be able to rub it between them a bit. It requires a little bit of pacing. She wants to start fairly slow usually but increase in intensity, hopefully along the same curve as sensitivity increases in the cock. It's probably better to tease each stage out slightly too slowly than force them too quickly out of impatience. With the latter it's like the ejaculation can get a bit scared away. But if it's smooth and gradual, it's like the cumming arrives right when she would max out movement of head/tongue/hands. If she doesn't want you to cum, she needs to pay special care to pull away at the first nanosecond of you starting to tense. Then you'll probably want to cum in her mouth. She should move you as far back as you both can, so it all goes straight into her throat/bypasses tongue. After that, she should know she doesn't have to just pull your cock out right away. When it's super sensitive right afterwards, it's nice to allow it to just sit in that nice, soft mouth/throat for a second to chill. I usually like to give it a little peck at the end too. I think some aspect of a good bj can't just be instruction and will only result from her developing a genuine love of sucking cock. Of course, a lot of that varies based on how easily a guy cums. I think cumming super easily is a great equalizer among blow jobs. Gay men might be able to give her better instructions.
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