So i met this chick and idk there is just something about her........ I just got out of a kinda long relationship that ended so-so. This was about a month and a half ago so i'm currently looking for a girl friend. Anyway i met this girl, we'll call her Shannon, we met through a mutual friend, i joined into her group of friends more or less. She smokes and such and thats mostly how i spend time with her. Here is where things start to get interesting at least to me. When ever were there we hang, talk, laugh together. She even asks me to take cig breaks with her even though i don't acutally smoke cigs. The problem is that i think she likes another guy in the group, she talks to us both equally but like shes always staring at me. But yesterday she just began being really mean to me, like she said i was judging her because i said i didn't snort pills. and like she said i called her a grimy bitch(completely false). I think the problem comes from her liking the other guy who doesn't actually like her, hes trying to get with another chick and i think she took out her anger/frustration on me. I guess what im asking is can i have some advice from a few girls, like maybe someone who's been in her position before.... Today i talked to her and everything was ok, she wan't angry at me but she seemed distant
I'm not a girl but it sounds like she needs some space. If she did indeed like this other guy and has realized it won't happen then of course she'll be upset. Luckily for you it wasn't even a relationship so she'll probably move on pretty quickly. But it also seems like if she's gonna be that much of a bitch to you for doing nothing really then maybe you should reexamine whether pursuing a relationship with her is even worth your time. No girl is definitely better than a girl who doesn't respect you.
wooo i found this old thread i thought i would update u guys..!! SOOOOO, recently shannon got in a fight with her group of friends and was kicked out......clearing out her schedule now we have mad time to hang.. We hung out saturday night and sunday night. On sunday night she "forgot" i had her lighter so yesterday i needed to return it. While we were talking she stood literally 5 inches from me. After we talked for awhile i asked her if she wanted to smoke some bowls after class and she was like yeah totally i'll call u. So we get together in her car, im in the back seat and her roommate(goddamnittt) was riding shotty. Every few mins she would look up into the mirror and stare back at me and i of course would stare at her also. After smoking a few bowls we got some ice cream and like shared the thing just passing it between us, we were sitting at a table in mcdonalds and our knees were touching but she didn't care cause she never said anything about it.. I totally dig her and from what im getting from her its possible she digs me also. But what do u guys/girls think...
