Gf's pregnant

Discussion in 'General' started by McIron Lungs, Jul 14, 2011.

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  1. #1 McIron Lungs, Jul 14, 2011
    We've been together for two years she already has a 4 year old who I love I just don't know what to I can't stop thinking bout having my own kid but I'm scared I'd screw it up... I'm 22 btw

    Thanks for any good advice and plz dnt respond with negativity
     
  2. #2 newbgrow, Jul 14, 2011
    The populous opinion seems to be that your feelings are normal. No one knows what they are doing and many are scared of fucking it up.

    If you are very worried this will likely make you a good parent. You give a shit, many parents do not.

    Best of luck to your new family sir.
     
  3. #3 McIron Lungs, Jul 14, 2011
    Thanks buddy if I knew how to + rep u I would. I think I'm nervous about committing for the rest of my life too But this is the happiest I've ever been with a girl.... Now I'm just running circles in my head I can't even think at work right now
     
  4. #4 newbgrow, Jul 14, 2011
    I've never been through anything more than pregnancy scares so take my advice with a grain of salt.

    I would work on your relationship with your girl right now. Be very supportive and get to know each other even more. You gotta be good with her to be good with your kid. Too many kids don't have a parent around.
     
  5. #5 100mil, Jul 14, 2011
    damn congrats man. I'm sure when the baby comes you'll know what to do.


    I've heard that having a kid changes a persons reality on life and personality to a whole new level.
     
  6. #6 McIron Lungs, Jul 14, 2011
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    Can a mod plz delete this kid outta my thread.... If you read my original post I said no negativity go back to colouring
     
  7. #7 McIron Lungs, Jul 14, 2011
    Sry man yah ur post was dickish...
     
  8. #8 Jdahms, Jul 14, 2011
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    i deleted right after i posted figured it was a too harsh
     
  9. #9 hippie flip, Jul 14, 2011
    thought about an abortion at all?
     
  10. #10 Alrex, Jul 14, 2011
    Sorry to hear, but congratz
     
  11. #11 McIron Lungs, Jul 14, 2011
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    Of course I want a kid this just isn't the best time, but though of an abortion brings me to tears
     
  12. #12 Continuum, Jul 14, 2011
    Congrats dude, kids are fucking awesome.
     
  13. #13 McIron Lungs, Jul 14, 2011
    Thanks to all of
    You for the support it means a lot to hear such positivity between people who don't even know each other. I'll keep you guys updated righ now I'm really leaning towers having it
     
  14. #14 Saca La, Jul 14, 2011
    Hey man just be happy u love and is happy with ur girl. Some people have kids with people they have no interest with. Stay positive and keep the love strong. I've herd having a family is actually pretty good.
     
  15. #15 Continuum, Jul 14, 2011
    ...What?
     
  16. #16 McIron Lungs, Jul 14, 2011
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    Leaning towards having it
     
  17. #17 Pew, Jul 14, 2011
    Make a promise to always do right by your kids and everything will work out. Just always keep that in mind and things will sort out.
     
  18. #18 McIron Lungs, Jul 14, 2011
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    Thanks bro... U have any kids?
     
  19. #19 winna99, Jul 14, 2011
    dont worry man itll be fine we've been takin care of our young for so long its like instinct, lol. aslong as you two have the money for a family, then you're fine
     
  20. #20 McIron Lungs, Jul 14, 2011
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    Just quit my old job at 18$ an hour to strt my plumbing apprenticeship... So I'm making a lot less now but am on a pathway to a lot more miney
     
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