Yes this is probably a similar story to some, but read and maybe offer some advice anyways So I've been dating this girl for 8 months now. She is from the next town over, and I worked with her last summer. Come to find out she was transferring from a near by college to mine. So we hit it off the first week and didn't really look back. First 4 months I smoked here and there on the weekends like it wasn't a big deal. And it wasn't. She told me she smoked a few times at her previous school, and we smoked I would say 6-8 times together over the semester. Again it wasn't ever a problem. About the 5th month in I got a half 0 that I rationed for 4 months. Really I don't smoke much, an 1/8 a month or so. So seeing that pickup one night made her wonder, and it didn't help that we proceeded to get hella stoned off Afgan goo, making us both pretty paranoid and just too high. It wasn't a good experience, and she hasn't smoked since then. This would be like late January. We talked and she wanted me to stop smoking, her reasons were: it's illegal, her dad and mom divorced cuz he kept smoking, she didn't like it, and just typical myths that any non-smoker believes from DARE and shit. Me being the retard, thought I really could quit. I did for almost a month. But having still alot of weed I smoked it in secrecy and just here and there. She asked me if I smoked at a concert I went to and I told her yes, because I did and didn't want to keep living a lie. Well that didn't go over well, and ever since then we have had just bad cycles of breaking up/fixing it. I thought this last go round we were maybe more trusting, but this girl is just very insecure with everything around her, and that's not how I am. I had that shit growing up, but I've moved on from caring what people think about me, not that I'm not a nice person. I give to many, and am friends with a wide variety of people. So yeah she's got some issues lol. But the making of this thread was based on a text I got tonight. Haha and here's the kicker, I've told her that I haven't smoked since whenever back in February. Which really I have. I hate hiding it, it's hard, and it just gives her another reason not trust me, even though I've never cheated on her except with mary jane. The text was about if she could trust me tonight. And I was like trust about what? I get back "The whole smoking issue". I don't think I want to ruin this summer, it's my last one before I graduate college next fall. I think it's even more fucked because I'm doing my first grow this summer too I showed her the union not too long ago, and she said she changed some views, but still it's obviously an issue with her. So yeah, should I just break up with this girl because she's bringing me down? It's not fair that I lie to her, but I'm a great bf to her otherwise. It's hard but I never wanted to break up with a girl over weed, but it's immanent. I think this cycle is just going to keep rolling. GC. wtf is a good guy to do? ps. my semester is over and I've been ripping some Norther Lights, longboarding, and tonight I'm getting drunk with my friends. And she still has a final tomorrow.