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Gf is acting weird...

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by MrHhhiiiooo, Mar 17, 2012.

  1. Okay so I HATE my girlfriends best friend. Like really hate. Shes a bitch to everyone including my girlfriend and all she talks about is herself. My girlfriend is the complete opposite so I don't even know why my girlfriend hangs out with her.

    Yesterday I found out that her best friend hates me too. It didn't really bother me because I won't be seeing her as much hopefully but it pisses me off that she hates me. I've been so nice to her and have tried my best to like her in the past 3 months and all she's done is bitch.

    Anyway so my girlfriend and I were texting about it and she said she's pissed off at both of us because neither of us have good reasons not to like eachother. I then sent a long ass message to her about how much of a bitch her friend is to her and everyone else, citing specific examples, and how she doesn't give a shit about my girlfriend.

    After 2 hours she texted me back (ha) and kind of agreed with me surprisingly and said she's been thinking a lot about me and her best friend and all her other friends and that she needs to make "changes." I'm guessing that means she's gonna end her friendship with her bestfriend, but she was also talking about me. That was late yesterday so I haven't hung out with her, but she still texts me and says she loves me and stuff but its like she uses a different tone like she doesn't want to say it. I dont know. Anybody have some advice?
     
  2. she uses a different tone in her text messages?..

    maybe you should actually talk to her man
     
  3. looks like face to face time is needed and looks like shes might have a hurtful change might not but looks like its her bestfriend vs you..... and i have a feeling the shitty bestfriend is winning ...
     
  4. Agree with cat, this is something you should talk to her in person about. I understand what you mean about "texting in a different tone" though. After talking to someone over text for a long time you practically know the way they text. But yeah... Have a face to face discussion and ask what's up
     
  5. Yeah I think that's what I'll have to do. Her and her bestfriend work together and theyre at work now and my gf just texted me and said shes getting a tongue piercing with her bestfriend after work? I dont really care what she does but she said if I didn't get the lip piercing I was thinking about then she wouldn't get anything else peirced either....but I'm hoping to get together with her tomorrow.
     
  6. Lip piercing, eh? Gonna have some very un-enjoyable blowjobs the first few months, friend.
     
  7. [quote name='"Laith"'] Lip piercing, eh? Gonna have some very un-enjoyable blowjobs the first few months, friend.[/quote]

    Haha no I wanted the lip peircing. She wants her tongue
     
  8. Oooh, I see. That will make the blowjobs even better! :hello:

    I'd suggest not to worry.. try doing something different. Do something fun with her, to get her interested in being with you. You don't need to make some big change, but maybe go out to somewhere she loves every once and awhile as a surprise.. could work. :smoke:
     
  9. [quote name='"Laith"'] Oooh, I see. That will make the blowjobs even better! :hello:

    I'd suggest not to worry.. try doing something different. Do something fun with her, to get her interested in being with you. You don't need to make some big change, but maybe go out to somewhere she loves every once and awhile as a surprise.. could work. :smoke:[/quote]

    Haha good plan man. Maybe I'll do that...shit it'll have to be something cheap cause I'm broke ha
     
  10. there is no 'tone' in a text dummy
     
  11. [quote name='"SundaySun"']there is no 'tone' in a text dummy[/quote]

    Fine. Her diction and syntax have changed. Better?
     
  12. Shit used to get me sooooo mad. When my ex-boyfriend got into it with my bestfriend. Like every time I chose my best friend over that guy. She's probably mad at you. I know I would be. My best friend was never a bitch to him though. we just spent "Too much time together"
     
  13. There's a difference between being those two things.
     
  14. Sounds like the best-friend is the jealous type and doesn't like your gf giving other people attention.
     
  15. Shes going to break up with you im 98% sure.
     
  16. I know, Just saying. The point regardless was that you don't get between a girl and her best friend.
     
  17. So if your boyfriend had a completely obnoxious friend who he always hung out with, and this friend was sexist, a jerk, and always commented on your ass, you would not care? You would just let it slide, because you don't get between 2 friends?

    I do not think so molly. :hello: There's a difference between a negative and a positive friend, right?
     
  18. Uh, yes you do when certain situations present themselves.

    If my girlfriend friend was an obnoxious, loud mouthed, addict who was always getting my girlfriend into bad or uncomfotable situations because of the friends stupidity, damn right I am going to say something.

    But, I wouldnt talk behind her back, I would sit the friend down and explain in very plain details why she is a moron to her face.

    When someone is doing something retarded, it should be fair game to call them out on it.
     
  19. any updates from OP?


    surely she chose the bestfriend which is fucked up deepending if shes a good friend or bad
     
  20. Yeah so hey I haven't gotten together with her because she was working today and I had other plans but I've talked to her and she said she was just mad about the whole situation and how it is kinda true and all that. I think everything's good other than having to still deal with her friend haa.

    It's not that I'm stealing her away from her friend or anything. They see eachother more than I see her ha. Her friend does try to steal her though. Like the other day her friend asked her if she could hangout and she said she was with me and her friend like went off and said that we've been spending too much time together and that I'm stealing her away which isn't true at all and my gf agrees. She does that with all my gfs friends though so it's not just me. She's just a selfish bitch and my gf is the only person who puts up with her so she's obsessed with my gf ha. That's my opinion.
     
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