I spent all day with her lol Appreciate the advice guys glad to know I'm not the only one an I just gotta keep my balance Sent from my SM-N920T using Grasscity Forum mobile app Thanks dick. Sent from my SM-N920T using Grasscity Forum mobile app
If marijuana had a vagina this girlfriend would be ur ex. Sent from my VK815 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
The more attention you show to your room the more she is going to dislike it. You may be headed towards and ultimatum. You have been warned.
She not going no where she likes to smoke once I harvest she will be happy and she will see the huge $ we save fucking huge $ lol she loves weed too. She just isn't into growing it Sent from my SM-N920T using Grasscity Forum mobile app
That's the thing....she isn't into growing it and its half her place. She gets a say in it. Put yourself in her shoes. What if she picked up a hobby you weren't comfortable with? Something that could cause you legal problems. Should she just say too bad? Or should she talk to you and take you're input into consideration? Its pretty inconsiderate to not take her feelings into account. Sent from my XT1028 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
She doesn't care that I do it at all. She cares that I get all nerdy about it and focus only on my room when I get off work for atleast an hour. Instead of coming home to her like I been thinking about her day not my room like I do. I need to show her she still comes before my shit. She doesn't mind the room she just thinks I'm stupid for spending so much time in their. And reading about it. Talking about it. Instead of talking about our relationship n making her feel special I'm workin on it man she might like it one day I need to get back to making her smile. Sent from my SM-N920T using Grasscity Forum mobile app
My wife didn't like me growing until I stopped for a few months and we ran out of weed, now she wants me to get a second tent and more lights lol.
My wife doesn't smoke and has zero interest in growing... ... for a while I got in the habit of come home... go downstairs... smoke... observe the plants etc. Now I come home and sit with her and have a beer before I blaze... and it's made an incredible difference in her tolerance of my hobby my cheap LED grow. 168 watts at the wall: https://forum.grasscity.com/index.php?/topic/1393482-My-"Everything-Wrong"-grow...-probably-no-harvest-:-/
the misses don't care for my hobbies either, but that's why they are mine and not hers we share similar hobbies as well. so long as it keeps ya happy and ain't taking a physical toll on ya you should be set bud. what's the problem?
I think the problem here is the priorities. She doesn't feel like a bigger priority than growing. And from the sounds of it she's not. my cheap LED grow. 168 watts at the wall: https://forum.grasscity.com/index.php?/topic/1393482-My-"Everything-Wrong"-grow...-probably-no-harvest-:-/
oh...well OP don't let your relationships stay on the back burner, keep em' hot. a stove has 4 burners for a reason bud.
In short, Everything in life is a balance and without getting clinical and charging you...everything in moderation. open communication and understanding, from both parties and make sure to take account her perspective on why it bothers her. Your partner wanting to spend time with you is not a huge problem in the grand scheme of things? Not that I have not had the same addiction to knowing more, helping and growing. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Op I think you need to adjust a few things and she will be on board with you. Instead of coming home and tending to the plants, try spending an hour with her before you check on your ladies. Maybe if your garden is taking too much of your time, you should look for ways to automate things. I was tired of spending so much time gardening that I decided to switch to a flood and drain set up for growing. It only requires 15-30 mins a day. Daily I just check water level in storage tank, ph, ppm of water and temps. It takes only a few mins to check and adjust things. The hard part is doing weekly - bi weekly water changes and flushing. That should take about an hour or so each time. It leaves more time for you lady and makes gardening so much easier. As long as your timers are programmed you sit back and watch. I would also explain to your lady that growing your own is much safer and cheaper than getting it from other sources. Being safer should be enough to convince her. The money savings are a bonus.
heres what u do dude, u ask if there was a weed u wanted and make her name a strain of cannabis then get that seed. have her germinate it , plant it, watch how it grows, taking her in there and showing how rewarding it all is. She will gain an interest In it, make it fun tell her u will take her to dinner of her choice if hers out grows yours, challenge her
You are just new to growing from what it sounds like. You can still love your hobby but you will find that eventually it is a second hand thing. I actually taken to growing a couple fun things. Sent from my SM-G900R4 using Tapatalk