Recently, my girlfriend and I have been talking about me smokin pot (its kind of a recent development compared to how long we've been together) and she hates it with a passion. I ask her why she hates it so much and she tells me that "she just does" and said that she could never put up with me smoking even once a week. We've gone back and forth saying that "if i loved her i would quit" and "if she loved me she would let me do it" and blah blah blah, but we can never reach a decision that both of us are happy with. I lover her to death - i would literally DIE for her, but I feel like she tryin to control my life by telling me i can't toke when i want to. We "agreed" on once a month but there's no way in hell i could do that, so I'm just gonna tell her that i smoke once a month. I dont really know what to do because I want to keep her in my life since she's the best thing that ever happened to me but I also love smoking pot. Could someone give me some advice in this situation?