My girlfriend and I just called it quits after 3 and a half years of dating, I can safely say that today has been one of the worst days of my life. As soon as she said she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore, I felt like I was trapped in this dark bubble isolated from the world, and I started looking up and around me for someone to wake me up, almost as if I was having a nightmare. I couldn't be more confident that I was having a dream, and that I was going to wake up and text my girlfriend how much I loved her again. I could tell a lot of it was rehearsed, and a lot of it was simply her friends talking. I didn't moan, bitch, or beg her to take me back. I swallowed my pride and thanked her for an amazing relationship. They say nothing is impossible, but holding my tears back today seemed to be as impossible as the whole thing being a dream. I'm on the road to recovery now, any advice is appreciated. Your fellow blade is hurting pretty bad. I saw it coming, but i didn't think she would since we lived together. Now I'm back at square one, single and looking for a new roommate.