Get her out of my mind?

Focus on bettering yourself.

Get a hobby, get good at it.
Dedicate yourself to something. Make your life interesting so you are not sitting at home wishing you were with her so it would be interesting.
Find out what makes you happy, because if your happiness comes from being with a woman than I am sorry you are weak.
Your happiness needs to be self generated.
Your life should be so damn interesting that woman want to be apart of it.
Woman should always be the icing on the cake, not the cake itself.

Find yourself, find happiness. The rest will come.

 

thats some shit bro

I'm also trying to move on from a girl, thing is I didn't even go out with her. Sucks.

 

I been trying to get over my ex for 3 years.idk wat to do either

 

Meet her in Montauk. (watch eternal sunshine of the spotless mind)

 

Yeah, I have a similar problem.



Honestly the RIGHT answer is to just live a better life. Take care of yourself and your life will get better in ALL areas. If you get your Facebook profile looking important/popular, girls will be very interested in that.

Party, work out, career, friends, etc... if u do that then it should just kinda flow naturally.

 

I'd say that the first step is realizing you're on a dead-end road. There's no paths from being broken up and her seeing some other dude that ends up with you back with her and happy forever. If you could really steal her away from this guy, that means that some other guy will do the same thing to you down the road. So the question becomes: do you want her, or do you want her because you can't have her?

I've been in that situation and it's miserable, but you've got to get enough respect for yourself not to waste your time pining over some girl who doesn't want to be a part of your life. You and your time are worth something, and if she's not into you, she's the one that's missing out.

And there's probably some girl that you already know who's completely into you, but since you've had your head on backwards for about seven months now you haven't noticed. So take a look around and move on. When you do, you'll find it's a lot easier than you thought it was going to be.

 

7 months is awhile bro.

I recommend working out because I love it. Spend hours if you like at the gym, prepare your meals and eat healthy. Transform your body into a work of art.

Or...find someone new. Easiest an quickest way to get over someone is to find someone new. It's been 7 months so it's time.

 

Honestly it's taken me from months to years to get over a couple of my relationships. Sometimes I am still not over it.

The only thing that works for me is finding someone else to love, which is no where as easy as it sounds, but it's the only thing that works for me. I can't curb the energy, I just have to find a place to redirect it.

 

i believe no one ever TRUELY gets over an ex that they actually cared about, my dad who is 56 still has a thought or a dream about some of his ex's from his late teens and early 20s. there comes a point where there is no emotion attached to those thoughts and it doesnt bother you anymore.

best solution OP, is to find something to keep you busy; start working out, pick up a new hobby, change your look, make new friends, etc.

success and happiness is the best revenge, so use all of those negative emotions and channel it into something positive. improve yourself so one day when you bump into each other (may very well happen, the world is small) she will rue the day that she tossed you away and dont look back, find a new girl who adores you and treats you right... she is out there.

i wouldnt be telling you this if i wasnt doing the samething.
since my ex broke up with me in september 2011, ive been working out at least 3 days a week, meeting new people, and learning how to play guitar (i want to be a rockstar or model for GQ one day ). it might seem hard now but trust me it does get easier with time bro, just take it a day at a time.

 

So much great advice in here but its all so much easier said then done. Its easy to keep myself pre-occupied during the day. Things get different though when your laying in bed, with no buds to smoke, and all you can think about is that person. All damn night.

 

[quote name='"Dalston"']thats some shit bro

I'm also trying to move on from a girl, thing is I didn't even go out with her. Sucks.[/quote]

Been there man, it indeed does suck

 

you gotta make yourself stop thinking about those thoughts, its hard at first but gets easier in time man.

something i use to do was plan out my next day and/or make a to-do list of fun things i want to do that week... its simple and works.

 

[quote name='"z3r0grav"']Not quite sure if this belongs here, but I just cant seem to get this girl out of my head.we broke up almost 7 months ago, and I still can't get over her. she's moved on and has been seeing someone for about a month, so I dont even feel comfortable confronting her about it. But anyways, back to the point. I miss her really bad right now, and i was wondering if anyone has some stoned insight on how to get over this? Any help is appreciated [/quote]

Hey man just watch animal planet. Or how male lions do it. Women don't like guys who can't move on they like guys who don't care. Are you a man? Get over it, it's not meant to be or get help