I have always heard friends say that they didn't need to "try" homosexuality to know they didn't like it, they just knew. I agreed, and still do agree. But I'm curious, being that we're anonymous, probably using TOR, if we can get some honesty here. Who here is straight but has tried gay activities? What were your thoughts? When I was in high school I got head from a gay dude. Wasn't planned, and involved alcohol and a lack of women. Basically, my game was flat that night and I didn't feel like going home and jerking off, was offered a blowjob and said yes. I was curious to see how much of sex is physical vs psychological; that is, obviously this guy knows what he's doing, but will the fact that I am not attracted at all to this person effect the experience? Will it just be physical? The result is that while it felt amazing(obviously), it wasn't worth it. I didn't have "issues" with it(could care less if I'm labeled a certain way)but mentally it was just unsatisfying. It was then I realized how much of sex, even for men, is psychological as opposed to purely physical. Thoughts/agree/disagree?
I've never had any homosexual encounters, but when I was in high school my brother had this gay kid who lived with him in his room (he was a cool kid, actually). That kid ended up at least sucking every one of their circle of friends off once. He tried to hit on me a couple times (we lived in the same house) but I made it very clear that it was a no-go. So I guess to answer your question, some people need to explore their sexuality to be certain, and others don't. When I asked my little brother why, he said becuase he was wondering if he was gay or not, and wanted to find out(which he isn't). It makes sence, I guess, but I can just think about it and realize it's not for me.