so i drove with one of my friends to get a qp. we get to this kids house, who is my friends friend, and some other kid. The other kid was the one i gave the money too, and he said he would be right back. well long story short he never came back. My friends friend called him about 20 times, but no answer. I dont think my friends friend even knew this kid was going to pull shit like that, because they were basicly brothers. so i ended up getting bitched out of $340. i was wanting to beat the kids ass or destroy something, but he is like a ghetto black kid living in not too good of a town. now im not a pussy i weigh about 200 pounds and its mostly muscle, but im afraid of getting shot or something. what should i end up doing?
imo take the loss bro. sounds like you should've held onto your money til you saw the green. that's how i do it at least... it sucks but you could've handled it better it seems... you could try and find this guy again, but if you're afraid of getting shot... ehh idk man lol... eek
Yeah... I mean, thats a pretty big stereotype about the hood but pretty true... They dont fuck around..
Most times you give money to people and then they go get your stuff, usually you get dicked over.Especially people you've never dealt with before or "friends of friends." Any chance a stranger has to just take your money and run, they'll do it. I have been fucked over a couple times before, but nothing big like a QP. I learned my lesson and now I only fux with people I know have the green on them or at least deal with people the won't bullshit and be like "This guy is weird about new people. I gotta go do this by myself." The point is to hand the guy the money at the same time he's handing over the bag. It usually ends up better for both parties that way. Someone should post a "How Not To Get Fucked Over" thread and sticky it to the top so everyone that's new to things will get the right ideas in their head.
First off, get some street smarts, and never front anything. For $300 plus dollars, gotdamn he got 1 hell of a hustle over on you, you sound naive and soft honestly. For that amount of money, you better go handle that and be a man about it. Take care of business and thats all i'll say, if not you are a coward, thats it, a punk coward. Forget being nice, i am telling you the truth. You sound like a book smart, no street smarts at all guy that is scared of a hood black kid. You act like a black person cant bleed or cant get beat down an robbed left in his boxers in the middle of the street. Matter fact, if you are going to let a kid, get you for all that money and be a coward and not do shit, hell good for him. You piss me off, sound like a yellow belly coward.
first off im not a coward, i just dont know what to do yet. my friend gets big shippments from this guy like weekly so we figured it would be cool and he always fronts him so he can run a few streets over and get the shit. my friend even told him that he put half down to act like he was in on it too.
Wow, I wish I was as tough as you. I also wish I could make blanket judgments on people I've never met on the basis of one posting on an internet forum. But hey, if you want to get 'pissed off' at people on the internet, I suppose that's your prerogative. To the OP, that sucks ass but that is what you risk when you front money - especially large quantities of money to people you don't know. If I was in a situation like that, where someone asked me to give them money so they could wander off and 'get the weed', I would say "nope, not until I see the QP." If they insist on getting the money first, then they are probably trying to pull something and then you can just leave. Weed is not that hard to get, I would rather walk home with no weed and a full wallet instead of empty hands and pockets. Hopefully your friend who knows the dealer can straighten this out, but to be honest I wouldn't count on it.
Sorry to hear about that man , you got 2 choices .. Learn from your mistake with frontin money before seeing the good's OR hunt the dude down and show him you not going to get fucked over like that - if you did decide to do that..dont start with violence straight the way . chat to him and find out whats up! He will be the one to decide how things go depending on what he says or how he acts when confronted - dont go to him cussin him out and ready to fight straight the way because maybe things could work out differnt if you go with the chill approach! If you approach him ready to fight..he will then have no choice but to fight back . But i dont no the dude , he could be the sort that would just want to fight straight up without talking! Id say .. if you can afford to loose the money then id let it go and learn from the mistake , if the money is a big thing .. go see him . With being afraid of getting shot if you did something - Honestly would this dude shoot someone? because that some serious shit .. id talk to you friend who know him and find out if he that type of dude . He willing to risk his freedom over you going to see him and trying to sort that shit out ? Good luck man
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck you! I was reading this thread with my fingers crossed, hoping this wouldn't come out. Somehow I knew it would though. Just say n!gger next time, no one around here seems to care about this shit.
Ok good to hear, I am going off on what you typed up, and I stand by what I said. I simply hate to see folks get ran over and talk like ok thats ok, I'll just take the loss and run away. I guarantee you he will do it to others and after a good ass whooping and taking everything valuable he has on him, he'll think twice about it again. That type of cash is alot of money for many people I know and myself included.
I'll discount your little shot at me, that fine, this is playland on a pc. Yet you are telling him to basically let it go and then another cannabis user will get ripped off too huh, yea a real plan right there. 300 plus dollars is a light bill payment, gas bill, phone bill, half rent, whatever its needed for. Taking 300 plus bucks off of me and out of my families mouth, you would get hurt an robbed, Im not a mean person, but i will never be ran over either. I'll give the shirt off my back for a person, but I stand up for myself too, respect an loyalty at the end of the day. Ya'll have a good one
Are you serious??? I would fucking slam that kids head into a wall and punch the shit outta him till he gave it back. Go back there kick his fuckin door in.
I apologize for the 'little shot' but you came across as a jerk in your first post. I don't believe I said anywhere he should let it go. Did you read my post? I said that this is what happens when you front money to strangers, and that the odds of getting his bills back are low. Which I think are both accurate. If he wants to track the guy down and pummel his face in then that's his choice, and it would be an understandable one to make. The kid could be a stupid punk who will learn his lesson, or he could pull a gun and shoot the OP's ass. There is no way to tell which is more likely since not even the OP knows the guy very well. I guess it depends on whether you think 300 dollars is worth the effort.
I wouldn't worry too much about it man. It's pretty easy for people to talk a big game on an anonymous web forum where there is 0 chance of repercussion or follow up. If everyone were as tough in real life as they are online, we'd all be walking around with broken jaws and popped kidneys.