lastnight i went round this chicks house, infact lets start from the very begining I just moved state, lived here 4months, lastmonth my friends introduced me to this dude, hes the type of guy that everyone talks about and always comes up in some epic storys. Anyway, me and him have chilled a couple of times by ourselves, you know i felt pre comfortable around him seemed legit, so we smoked and went to partys and shit (nohomo) he broke up with his girlfriend 2weeks ago? i regurly smoke with her at school and shit and anyway, she just moved out of home and had her house warming party lastnight, massive amounts of people, including her ex (and my friend). lets call him brad. anyway huge amounts of weed, a shittone of salvia, and an incredible amount of alcohol later, im making out with his girlfriend and slept next to her that night with her in my arms about 10minutes ago, i got this message on facebook, this is how the convo played out, what shoudl i have done better, because hes pre mad, i liked having him as a friend and he accpeted me into his group of friends instantly. sucks losing mates over chicks. BRAD with all due respect man dont you think you could have waited like a month before you got with my ex? 10 minutes ago ME Sup bro, That was a shitty move on my part i know, made a stupid decision Tbh, id like to blame it on the alcohol but that would be pre dickish. if it makes you feel any better we never hooked up. I know you probs lost most of the respect you had for me, well infact all of it. but yeah, wont be happening again i tell you that. one love brosepth 4 minutes ago BRAD i heard yous kissing and its all good as long as you realise you made a dick move and im more angry at zoe actually. 2 minutes ago ME Kissing yes, hooking up no :s shout you a sesh and some bevies soon. have a lil chill and forget it happend? A few seconds ago BRAD id like to forget abOut her all togethor... Dw bout shoutin me man. your apologie is enough.
Haha. Ok, ok. I just enjoy being a dick I was a dick because this sounds like a non-problem. Whoever this dude is, from how his messages read, he's happy and giving you some respect for fessing-up and being honest about it. He sounds like he still wants to chill with you, but will probably give you a bunch of shit.
Just don't do it again. When I broke up with my ex we would still run into each other a lot at parties and such. Whenever she would see me she would start whoring around trying to kiss/hook up with any guy she could to try to get me upset/jealous. I could care less about the guys she was kissing, I wouldn't reject a chick that is all up on me like that. I was more upset at her for doing that shit. But regardless, it seems as though he still likes you as a friend and is willing to forgive but probably not forget for a while. Also, don't bring it up in conversations with him, let it be settled with what was already said. If you keep bringing it up it's just going to make him more upset.
My slangs fucked in general, Im from the uk, and lived there till i was 16, so i use alot of brittish slang. I lived in aus for the past 2years, and have picked up alot of the slang from my last state, and now this one I also ust to get sponsered to play Counter strike source (computer game) and picked up little bits of lingo of that so yeah Funny if im full on raged people dont have a clue what im tralking about. (cba spell checking cos stupid phone does stupid auto correct and the dictionary is terrible )
whrut the frack? ever hear of bros before ho's where you're from? ho's come and go but it looks like you just lost a friend. hope it was worth it for just some kissing. swing for the fences with her now that it already went down. just make sure he's not there this time
How did you fuck up majorly? Your friend seemed understanding and all, he seems rather legit in fact. And you didnt even fuck her so why fucked up majorly? More like "kissed my friends x, yo"
yeah its never wise to hook up with your friend's ex's... infact knowing how most of my friends are i dont want their sloppy seconds...just me though. if he forgives, he forgives but dont be shocked if he evens things up in the future...some people will tell you its all cool but then when you have a gf they'll try to get with her... out of all the girls at the party...u had to go for his? aww man...
the rules of sloppy seconds. GO if she was just a slut. NO GO if she ripped his heart out. there we go my man.