I've been considering this, but I don't know. So many people say it's a bad thing. It's just, well, I am human. I crave sex and intimacy. But I don't really care for a relationship with anyone I've met thus far. I don't think I'd be ok with them fucking other people, though. That's dirty. But it could be a good thing, considering I don't just want casual sex, either. I'm not a wham bam kinda girl. It's not that I'll want you to stick around forever, but I like having someone I can chill with. Relax, smoke, talk, and fuck periodically. good idea bad idea bring it on
"I like having someone I can chill with. Relax, smoke, talk, and fuck periodically." sounds like you need a boyfriend then lol
I have only had it really work with three or four girls. I would not even say it was friends with benefits; it was hooking up a few times over a long period of time. It was never anything frequent or formal but it was nice.
friends with benefits.. hmm those were the days, didnt have to worry about hurting someones feelings even though that usually happened anyway. but i agree maria if i we're having sex it would be weird knowing you were banging someone else. on to the next!
It all depends on two things: 1.) Yourself and your persona. Can you handle hitting it and quitting it? Not all girls can because those particular girls cannot un-mix sex and love within their subconscious. 2.) Whom you plan on being friends with benefits with. I would not reccomend doing it with a veryyy close friend or a "bestie". That is a recipe for disaster. Now, take a moment to reflect.