Friend dating your ex

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by vivaciousnfree, May 28, 2009.

  1. So one of my good friends is dating my ex boyfriend. This was pretty much my first serious boyfriend, the guy I lost my virginity to. We dated for about 2 years.

    Now I find out that one of my good friends is dating him. That doesn't really bother me, Ive definitely moved out and I'm way past him but what really bothers me is that she didnt even tell me herself. I didnt really even say anything to her about it...it was whatever. But now whenever im around her all she does is talk about him and I dont even know what to say...ughhh

    anyone else have similar experiences?
     
  2. I think thats fucked up. Usually the first guy a girl fucked she falls for hardd. FOREVER.
     
  3. she was probably embarrassed, tell her your tired of hearing about him. and if your really tired of her shit next time she talks about him just say that you liked her more before, when she asks what you mean just be like " you know when you never talked about him, other than now when you always talk about him" that should send the message.
     
  4. #4 Mezmiro, May 28, 2009
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    Sort of. I dated a girl for 1 year, and she was with my best friend the day after we broke up. 2 months later they end up engaged. Now they're broken up because he moved away and cheated on her.

    To top it off, she ended up going to Cali to meet up with some friends after the breakup, and ended up pregnant with another guy.

    So...I'd say there are worse things out there. ;)
     
  5. ^ I gotta say, she was obviously cheating on you with your "best friend" well before you 2 broke up.
     
  6. lol OWNED!
     
  7. Unless that guy has serious mental health problems. I think he would know about that.

    Anyway. your situation seems really screwed up...People are idiot's. trust me. and nobody can say they aren't. everyone has done something really stupid that they regret. I say just tell her to shut up about him. mostly because you obviously don't want to hear it. If she keeps talking about him just put in your ipod or something. just ignore her completely.

    Hope it turn's out cool. Peace.
     
  8. Wow, you are right, that is wayyyyy worse than my situation. Karma is a bitch.

    Thanks for the advice everyone, I really appreciate it. It helps that all of our mutual friends have my back and are on my side it just kind of sucks that someone I was such good friends with would do that to me. Its funny though because while I was dating my ex she was dating his bestfriend. Wierd...
     
  9. [quote name='vivaciousnfree']So one of my good friends is dating my ex boyfriend. This was pretty much my first serious boyfriend, the guy I lost my virginity to. We dated for about 2 years.

    Now I find out that one of my good friends is dating him. That doesn't really bother me, Ive definitely moved out and I'm way past him but what really bothers me is that she didnt even tell me herself. I didnt really even say anything to her about it...it was whatever. But now whenever im around her all she does is talk about him and I dont even know what to say...ughhh

    Kind of. My exbest friend is engaged to my exboyfriend.

    After he and I started to date, she confessed that she really liked him, and to be honest, even though I was with him for an entire year, I should have just encouraged them to be together as I was never that into him to start with.

    What bothers me about it is that I would LOVE to be friends with her again but having to deal with that ackwardness is what keeps me from rekindling the friendship.

    I hope that they are happy together, because they both deserve to be happy and I'm glad they found love for each other and regret that I stood in the way of it to start with.
     
  10. ya hate the awkwardness ew
     
  11. thats a common misconception, myself and most of the girls i know didn't fall in looove or anything after their first time haha. i know i especially had no feelings for the guy i was with, but it doesn't make me regret it because it was probably some of the best sex i've had. good way to start out. high as fxck too :smoking:

    and as for friend dating your ex, in my circle of friends thats soo wrong!
    but for him to be someone special to you? thats a whole new level of wrong ness.
    tell her to shut her face when shes around you or you'll break it.
     

  12. I think thats messed up. She could have at least told you before they start dating. It seems like your friend dont care about you.
     
  13. I heard if you jerk off to tranny porn you get addicted to chicks with dicks for the rest of your life....FOREVER
     
  14. ^ This is true.

    Good job hydr1!
     


  15. AAHHHHHH DARKNESSSS everybody DARKNESS!!!!

    Rick James
     
  16. is it wrong to be attracted to friends girlfriends? lol i dont get it :( and for some reason its the only pussy i get lol..
     

  17. sounds like someone has experienced this firsthand lol
     

  18. you could have the infidelity fetish, where you can only get off by screwing around with taken girls..
     
  19. i wouldnt be able 2 chill w/ her after that., its lame for her to hook up w/ an x of any of her friends., ( there is no other guys she could get with? ), what a skeez.
     
  20. I've managed to stay away from relationships until college, so I dont have a lot of knowledge on what to do say. but from my perspective: If your friend is hooking up with other girls and is really over this ex of him then he shouldn't care. But it depends on what type of guy your friend is and the reason he and his ex broke up.(it gets complicated i guess!) Secrets are never good though, especially from close friends.
     

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