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Friend being really odd...

Discussion in 'Real Life Stories' started by s0ad05, Sep 15, 2006.

  1. #1 s0ad05, Sep 15, 2006
    Ive been friends with my friend since like the 3rd grade. He's always been a kid that I just knew and was a really good friend. Well we are both out of High School now and last new year's we met this girl through a friend of ours. She was a year younger but she was really cool and became one of our smoking buddies since that night.

    Well my friend thinks he is real smooth when it comes to women sometimes. So he tried getting with her for about 2 months. It was like everyday and it was kinda wierd if her and I hung out at the time. Then she turned him down and made it clear that she wasn't interested and he started to get sour with her. For some reason she decided to stop messing with him so much and we started to hang out like everyday.

    She is really cute but she's just one of my strong friends now so I wouldn't try anything with her. Well The other day my friend started to get real wierd about her and I hanging out with each other so much. So he starts talking behing my back to her trying to make me sound wierd.

    So last night she told me what he had said about me. He was telling her that she was like my goddess and that I brag about hanging out with her to him. This is total bullshit seeing as whenever he asks me what I've been up to I usually dont even let him know that I am with her just because of the way he acts.

    So last night he was over and was acting incredibly wierd with his attitude towards her and I. When he was leaving we were all outside having a ciggarette on the front porch and when he leaves he like just decides out of nowhere to make sure that I saw him hugging her.

    She always tells me after he hugs her that she doesn't like it because of how awkward it is cause he like pushes it. Im just trying to figure out whats up with my friend because Im really getting tired of his little games.

    Do I have a valid point of thinking his behavior is odd?
     
  2. #2 emagdnim13, Sep 15, 2006
    your friends an asshole.

    he's lying to a girl who, from what i know, you are just chilling with because he's a fucking creep and she doesn't want any of him.


    you need to tell him whats up.
     
  3. #3 Bliz-NATI, Sep 15, 2006
    I say expose him in the worst possable way, and catch the asshole in the lies. he isnt your friend if he gonna get with your lady, or force your """FRINED"""" to do that. he seems like a wanker. :D

    Tell her to tell him she doesnt like him in anyway.
     
  4. #4 s0ad05, Sep 15, 2006
    She has told him. Clearly to is face.

    Honestly ive confronted him about his lies on many occasions but its like talking to a mirror it just doesn't get anywhere. Ill end up just ignoring him for awhile and not picking up my cell phone but he gets really really wierd about it sometimes.

    Next week Im going with her down to see my other buddy in college and we didn't tell my one friend because of the way he acts about us. So the other night she was with her friend and her friend brought it up to him and he got a little pissy. EVEN THOUGH he doesn't like my buddy that goes to college.

    Confusing yes. I really end up now just staying away from him and hanging out with her but its things like last night that get under my skin.
     
  5. #5 Bliz-NATI, Sep 15, 2006
    He aint your real friend then ;)
     
  6. #6 .ViciouS., Sep 15, 2006
    Jealousy and spite, obviously he has some growing up to do. This happens when a girl gets in between two good friends, Ive seen it all the time. Time will only tell, just try to be cool with him and not avoid him and if he still continues to act the way he is, then you have to tell him straight up, and if he still doesn't like it, well then it's your choice.
     
  7. #7 smoked stoopid, Sep 15, 2006
    yes u do have a valid reason for thinking that way...

    u kno the golden rule between best homies is that u will never let sum gurl come between yalls friendship.. and it is clear that, while u and this gurl arent together, by him being turned down by her he has gotten jealous and he is letting this gurl get between you guys friendship. There reallie isnt anything that u can do... i mean u can try talking to him bout it and letting him know whats up but that also takes the risk of him taking it the wrong way and then going off into a tangent.

    my advice though is if he is going to act the way he is and go behind your back then u dont want him as a friend... irreguardless of how long yall have known eachother it doesnt make what he is doing right.

    life is all about loosing ppl u care about and meeting new ones. in my opinion you dont need a negative influence in your life. life is hard enough as it is without your "supposively" best friend goin off on u cuz hes a lil jealous middle school bitch whose balls have yet to drop.

    good luck bro and i hope it all works out.
     
  8. #8 Smot-Poker, Sep 15, 2006
    Tell him to go fuck himself.
     
  9. #9 Le Grenouille, Sep 16, 2006
    He is just feeling jealous and insecure. Has he had much experience with girls? Just immaturoty....he'll get over it.
     
  10. #10 s0ad05, Sep 16, 2006
    thanks guys this really makes me feel alot better because I didn't really know if i was having some nonsense thoughts about the situation myself.
     
  11. #11 Kool, Sep 16, 2006
    Punch him in the face..bet he wakes up long enuff to see what a dick he is.
     
  12. #12 whitewarrior, Sep 16, 2006
    That's ridiculous bro, pure jealousy. Don't let your friend get to you just because the girl doesn't like him. She's most likely finding comfort in you because you don't throw yourself at her like your friend does. Just keep smokin' man and let it all pass you by, who knows she may start liking you...

    *If his jealousy continues you and that girl need to find a new buddy to pass the time with..
     
  13. #13 jeffro34, Sep 17, 2006
    dude i had a prob just like this and what i did was just tell it to his face if you guys are really tight it shouldnt be such a big deal just tell him that she dosent like him but make sure u get the point across. but dont get pissed cause u prob still want a good friend. for me it worked out and he even admited that he was acting dumb
     

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