[quote name="WaxPayne" post="19310506" timestamp="1389304866"]If hes smart , or secure with both your and his body, he would be delighted! I think you guys need to explore your sexuality more. Trust isnt just about trusting you guys won't fuck each other over , it also deals with trusting each others bodies enough to fuck and explore new things . Prudence will eventually lead to boredom. Boredom leads to distance . Distance is means to an end .[/quote]Bingo!
[quote name="RickkRolld" post="19310478" timestamp="1389304679"]This is a long shot but does he possibly have a porn addiction? I know that when i was younger I had a pretty gnarly porn addiction and was never in the mood for my gf..you just really need to sit him down, fully clothed, and possibly in a public place (so he is forced to reasonably and calmly talk it out) and tell him exactly how you feel.Maybe try typing, or hand writing what you want to say. I feel that if i try to have a 'talk' with my gf just off the top of my head, i forget alot of important details that needed to be brought up. Typing it out ahead of time will help you hit key points when you are talking to him. Hope i can help some!Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I337 using Grasscity Forum mobile app[/quote]Yeah maybe he could read 50 shades of gray or watch the notebook or something that might help! Ahhh. There should be a club for this problem!!
I've always been adventurous as far as my sex life goes, very open, comfortable, and willing to try new things. Comfortable in both my sexuality and my own body. I understand where you're coming from.
Women want a lot of sex with one man, men want a lot of sex with different women. It's biology and in a monogamous relationship it can get slow/boring sometimes.Find something that gets him going again. If your cool with it I'd suggest a threesome. FYI a threesome is two girls and a guy, two guys and a girl is a train.
You may be but he may not be . The biggest thing is communication. Don't think "will he be hurt by this if I ask say _____ ? " Instead try to ask yourself "If I don't say anything how will this effect our relationship in the future?" If he takes it the wrong way, rationalize . Tell him things too. Give him compliments and tell him you like the things he does to your body both during and not during intercourse or foreplay. Build up his own confidence in himself to help your guys' relationships . I've been in your situation before and a spark of confidence in your partner helps make communication alot easier
[quote name="basedgoddess00" post="19310961" timestamp="1389308870"]Although we hate condoms, (who doesn't?) smart idea.[/quote]Tell him to learn about kegelsI know you love your bf and all but if he can't please you it'll eventually go south so tell him to buck up or leave his ass!Is kill for a girl with your sex drive!Mine is really stingy with the box and says one is enough for her and I "Wore her out and she's tired" kinda like the cliche man gets off and leaves girl to fend for herself kinda way except I'm a dude lol. It's ok cause I'm cheating on her and man can this girl can go! Defiantly not the wifey type thoughTotal hoe and I'd never hit raw.Long story short tell him to get his shit together (kegels) or drop his ass. P.S there's a kegel forum a couple topics up!
[quote name="basedgoddess00" post="19309993" timestamp="1389300671"]It's been like this for awhile now, and I don't entirely know what to do to change it, but here goes...My sex drive is insane, I could go multiple times a day for days. And days. And then some more days. My boyfriend's stamina has seemed to have dropped off a bit since the beginning, and it's like he gets too turned on to be able to hold up long enough for me to finish. I feel like part of the problem is foreplay. He'll happily accept a blowjob from me, but then wants to go right into sex. The only time he ever fingers me or goes down is when I dress up in lingerie, and even then it's only for a brief moment. I know the problem isn't hygiene related, I take extra time in the shower to make sure I'm extra clean, and completely shaven. I know the problem can't be taste, it's never been a problem in the past for any guys (or girls, for that matter.) But I don't understand why he wouldn't enjoy pleasing me as much as I love pleasing him. I always read posts up here about how much guys enjoy pleasuring their girl, and I don't understand why he doesn't touch me. He says I never ask him to eat me out, but he never has to ask me to go down on him?It's pretty much gotten to the point that when he does give me foreplay, I'm too worried about him not enjoying it to get any pleasure from it. Understandably, some women have some fucked-up looking vaginas, but I mean, shit. From what I've heard, and what I think myself, I have a beautiful vag. He gets annoyed when I frequently try to get him in the mood, but he's the only one getting any pleasure. Don't get me wrong, it feels amazing when we have sex, it's just not long enough, or I haven't been 'prepared' enough to achieve my orgasm. I understand that sometimes your hand, jaw, or tongue can get tiresome, but I never stop when I'm on top and my legs are about to give out, or when my throat gets sore. I go through leg pain equivalent to next-day squat pain if I have to, without any problems.Am I doing something wrong? How can I change things? Any stamina tips for men?Thanks blades. I don't think you're doing anything wrong, but I think you need to talk to him. Foreplay is very important in helping you get closer to getting off. He has to start going down on you and fingering you a lot more. Otherwise it's not fair to you because he's getting off and you're not. Also why would you need to ask him to go down on you finger you. Especially if you don't ask him if you can give him a bj. [/quote]
My wife and I have the same issue, but in reverse. I have a hyperactive sex drive and she has no sex drive at all. She just recently found out that she has PCOS and is getting treated for it which is helping a bit. Maybe your boyfriend is under an extreme amount of stress, has a poor diet and does not exercise much, or something along those lines. If he is willing to, have him consult a doctor about it.
Do you tease him? Try it. Tease him to the point where he wants to touch you.Bring fox into the mix.Whipped cream on some pussy is ALWAYS delightful. Or just sit on his face when he's sleep. Either way Get yours